xruthx Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 as the title says, if for whatever reason your mate did not like your partner, would you dump them to please your mate? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heyesey Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 I'd do whatever keeps ME happy. That's rather the point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agent Orange Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 Nope, I wouldnt and if they were a true friend then they wouldnt make such an ultimatum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SheShe Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 Definately not. If one is so insecure with the other that's their problem not yours. Tell them to get over it and agree to disagree. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kirsty_ Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 Definitely not. And like AO said- if they were a true friend they wouldnt put you in that position Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
haddockman Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 I can't think of a scenario where you would need to make sucha choice! If a friend didn't like a new partner, or could see things going wrong, I'd listen to what they had to say, but at the end of the day it's your life, you make your own mistakes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agent Orange Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 I can't think of a scenario where you would need to make sucha choice! If a friend didn't like a new partner, or could see things going wrong, I'd listen to what they had to say, but at the end of the day it's your life, you make your own mistakes. Indeed... what is with the name? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swan_Vesta Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 Invite the friend for a threesome .... Maybe they'd like them more afterwards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bago Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 Well, of course not. I think any mates would be concerned, or even jealous of someone taking up your time in you life, and I think that's kind of natural, especially if you neglect your mates when you started to date. It's like as if you just used your mates' time until you find someone better to befriend... but ideally, people should make an effort to get on with their friends' partners etc. Different people mean to us differently, and we don't necessarily see all sides of a person, so... I'd say, don't be too harsh on the mate, but stand firm if your partner means a lot to you etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheff_minx Posted January 6, 2008 Share Posted January 6, 2008 It depends on how long I'd known the friend, how long I'd known my partner, and what the reasons for the friend being against the relationship were. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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