boyfriday Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 I was never very much good at that even when I was single. Liar, liar..pants on fire..in fact so hot they vapourised, before the girls could drag em off! I think it was partly because my attempts to be subtle when meeting attractive women were usually betrayed by my tongue hanging out. ..that was the bit they liked! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizzmobile Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 Ditto. But I was much younger, reckless and hedonistic.(edited) It's something I've learned to grow into .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimba Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 i have never cheated on my OH and never would i can never understand why people would do it cant you just leave them first and then go off with who ever. anyhow once a cheat allways a cheat i say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heyesey Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 If someone, in a given relationship under given circumstances, has cheated, I think it's reasonable to assume that in the same relationship and circumstances, they will do so again. So far as that goes, yes - once a cheat, always a cheat. If your partner has had affairs but says it's all over and wants to be faithful from now on - sod that, it won't happen. That said, someone who has cheated in a past relationship won't necessarily do so in a future one. This depends on which of innumerable reasons was the cause of them cheating the first time around. I'm also reminded of a famous quote - so famous, in fact, that I can't remember who said it "When a man marries his mistress, he creates a job vacancy." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaznay Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 If someone, in a given relationship under given circumstances, has cheated, I think it's reasonable to assume that in the same relationship and circumstances, they will do so again. So far as that goes, yes - once a cheat, always a cheat. If your partner has had affairs but says it's all over and wants to be faithful from now on - sod that, it won't happen. That said, someone who has cheated in a past relationship won't necessarily do so in a future one. This depends on which of innumerable reasons was the cause of them cheating the first time around. I'm also reminded of a famous quote - so famous, in fact, that I can't remember who said it "When a man marries his mistress, he creates a job vacancy." just what I was trying to say...thanks heyesey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celestial Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 I can't be bothered with one boyfriend, let alone waste my time with two:) If mr sexy right came along, then I might make an effort. I wouldn't cheat on anyone as it's just asking for trouble and there's no point in it, just like there's no point in being with someone where the relationship is obviously gonna go nowhere. I think people who have cheated, can change. As people do make mistakes, and people hopefully learn from them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saff Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 Before we got together, my husband wasn't really a cheat as such but more 'free' with his loving towards lots of women! (Many of whom happened to be my friends as he and I were initially just friends living together, so I always knew what was going on!) Once we'd got together he made it clear he wouldn't be doing that anymore and I'm pretty sure he hasn't and we've been together 5 years and are now married with 2 kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cloudybay Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 I'm also reminded of a famous quote - so famous, in fact, that I can't remember who said it "When a man marries his mistress, he creates a job vacancy." Sir James Goldsmith. How very true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 Sir James Goldsmith. How very true. I think that there is an element of truth in this, however, I have known of men who men who marry their mistress for it all to work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LDeville Posted October 9, 2011 Share Posted October 9, 2011 Hi There are many tell, tale signs re a cheat, some are posted below. As entering or leaving the office, straight on the mobile. At the office, directly into Emails. At the office, making calls early morning on their mobile or co phone and doing this very quietly. Dressing difereently. Happeir than usual. Taking off half days or leaving early or longer lunch breaks than usual. Hiding their phone form their other half and getting angry when the other half touches the mobile. Quickly changing pages on the net as the other hald comes over and locking their computer and mobils. Encoraging their other half to go out with their mates more just like he/she does. there are more Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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