horribleblob Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 That doesn't guarantee they don't fancy you or don't want to take the friendship further. It just means they haven't said or done anything about it In other words, they have decided to be ''just friends'' ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattricia Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 Yes, of course they are able to be friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KTHFB Posted October 14, 2008 Share Posted October 14, 2008 That doesn't guarantee they don't fancy you or don't want to take the friendship further. It just means they haven't said or done anything about it IMO, at some point if they DID want to be more than friends, sharing a bed time and time again, coupled with alcohol would at some point make one of you initiate something if it was what you both wanted. I'd say the fact that this hasn't happened so far, means they're only friends. I share my bed on a regular basis (platonically I hasten to add) where nothing has happened - and neither of us would volunteer to start anything either, as we just don't see each other that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted October 15, 2008 Share Posted October 15, 2008 IMO, at some point if they DID want to be more than friends, sharing a bed time and time again, coupled with alcohol would at some point make one of you initiate something if it was what you both wanted. I'd say the fact that this hasn't happened so far, means they're only friends. I share my bed on a regular basis (platonically I hasten to add) where nothing has happened - and neither of us would volunteer to start anything either, as we just don't see each other that way. I used to share beds with male friends a lot in my student days, it was the norm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katy1981 Posted October 15, 2008 Share Posted October 15, 2008 I used to share beds with male friends a lot in my student days, it was the norm. ive shared a bed with a male freind and absolutely nowt happend and i knew it wouldnt anyway! i dont think its immpossible to be just freinds but i understand some freindships are made harder when one of you wants more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted October 15, 2008 Share Posted October 15, 2008 ive shared a bed with a male freind and absolutely nowt happend and i knew it wouldnt anyway! i dont think its immpossible to be just freinds but i understand some freindships are made harder when one of you wants more. I've done it many a time. On a few occasions the male in question did try their luck, soon put them right. I had loads of male friends when I was a student, now I've hardly got any. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boyfriday Posted October 15, 2008 Share Posted October 15, 2008 I had loads of male friends when I was a student, now I've hardly got any. ...you've got me and ash! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted October 15, 2008 Share Posted October 15, 2008 ...you've got me and ash! True! My 2 tampon buddies.:hihi: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mojo1 Posted October 15, 2008 Share Posted October 15, 2008 True! My 2 tampon buddies.:hihi: That sounds so bad on so many levels:hihi: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arachnophobe Posted October 15, 2008 Share Posted October 15, 2008 That sounds so bad on so many levels:hihi: *Remembers the Prince Charles/ Camilla tampax scandal* I thought I'd repressed that memory for good! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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