hollymay Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 Do you love or hate this service? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
taxman Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 Don't know what it is. How about giving us a clue? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollymay Posted August 26, 2009 Author Share Posted August 26, 2009 the organisation that decides who gets the kids on divorce Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellis Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 hate them with a passion if the whole building caught fire with all of them in it i wouldnt **** on it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BasilRathbon Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 Coludn't they have called themselves CARCASS instead, to demonstrate how the once-healthy body that was a happy marriage has decayed into a rotting corpse of a divorce? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lanie91 Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 thank the lord I have no involvement in this organisation. never had to get involved when split with my ex and arrange child access etc. mind you thats cos I put my child first and didnt take the split out on the child and use him as weapon in the split. if you keep your head and are civil and put the need of the child first and their preferences then they cafcass not needed to be involved. it can be done, it has been done, by very many people. and it will carry on to be done in the future. altho not by everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bizzers Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 Sometimes they are needed, for instance i had to get them involved when my ex said he was not going to return my daughter one day for silly reasons. How could i trust my daughter would come back the weekend after. I found them to be quite fair on both sides. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeadingNorth Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 thank the lord I have no involvement in this organisation. never had to get involved when split with my ex and arrange child access etc. mind you thats cos I put my child first and didnt take the split out on the child and use him as weapon in the split. It is only partly because you were sensible and reasonable. It is equally as much because your partner was sensible and reasonable. Not everyone is so lucky. My uncle, having just been informed by his sweet, lovable wife of whom nobody has ever had a bad word to say, that she wants to leave him, has suddenly found that she's sending all her relatives down to strip out the house of all their joint belongings, that she intends to force him to sell and give half the proceeds to her, and that her lump-sum savings, which she has accrued precisely because he was paying the mortgage, she has transferred into her dad's name so they can't be counted as joint assets in the divorce case. Thankfully there are no children involved, but in cases where one partner is being reasonable and the other is being vindictive, a body like CAFCASS is a depressing necessity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
depoix Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 thank the lord I have no involvement in this organisation. never had to get involved when split with my ex and arrange child access etc. mind you thats cos I put my child first and didnt take the split out on the child and use him as weapon in the split. if you keep your head and are civil and put the need of the child first and their preferences then they cafcass not needed to be involved. it can be done, it has been done, by very many people. and it will carry on to be done in the future. altho not by everyone. but the court decides if they get to interfere or not,after the court welfare service have had their bit of course Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RonJeremy Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 the organisation that decides who gets the kids on divorce : usually the woman along with the assets and none of the blame Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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