cloudybay Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 I'm not depressed.... I just wish I could be someone different. Oh yes you are depressed. Learning to like yourself isn't something they teach you at school, is it? Perhaps they should if only they knew how. Learning to understand and accept yourself for what you are rather than for who you are requires a lifetime of commitment as every day is a voyage of discovery. Any journey into the realms of self awareness will be a long and bumpy ride but well worth the eventual soft landing into contentment. Try this site as your starting point http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome Bon Voyage! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kirsty_ Posted November 25, 2009 Author Share Posted November 25, 2009 My bold So what changed you??? I really honestly don't know. I wish I could answer I just wish I could go back to how I used to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melthebell Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 jealousy, jealousy haha! Hope ur well mi ol' friend aye im still cool hope you are too Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Kirsty_ Posted November 25, 2009 Author Share Posted November 25, 2009 Thanks cloudy I'll take a look I am ok mel thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
souldriver Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 I don't really like who i am. I feel down quite often. Usually no matter what i do it turns out to be wrong and people get disapointed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katy1981 Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 i hate who ive become over the last couple of years. i used to go out a lot with freinds. i now go no where and am in bed for 10pm at the latest most nights. i used to wear high heels now i seem to prefer to come straigh home and jump into my pj's and comfy "sensible" slippers. i used to be so confident and self assured in everything i did, now i second guess everything i do and i cannot make any decisions on the spot and i doubt myself constantly. and my patience has totally gone i feel like im screaming at people contantly or im not in a goood mood anymore. its has been a rough year or two though as we renovated our house completely, i got pregnant with our second child, my dad got ill and later passed away (6 months ago) then my partner got made redundant. but things are looking up in certain areas so im hoping i will soon be back to my old self soon but no i dont like myself right now and i think my life is crap tbh i dont feel as though i live my life i feel as though right now im just exsisting and not living. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dozy Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 I really honestly don't know. I wish I could answer I just wish I could go back to how I used to be. I think it sounds like Cloudybay is right and you are suffering from depression. This is a helpful site, have a look and see how many of the symptoms you have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dozy Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 i hate who ive become over the last couple of years. i used to go out a lot with freinds. i now go no where and am in bed for 10pm at the latest most nights. i used to wear high heels now i seem to prefer to come straigh home and jump into my pj's and comfy "sensible" slippers. i used to be so confident and self assured in everything i did, now i second guess everything i do and i cannot make any decisions on the spot and i doubt myself constantly. and my patience has totally gone i feel like im screaming at people contantly or im not in a goood mood anymore. its has been a rough year or two though as we renovated our house completely, i got pregnant with our second child, my dad got ill and later passed away (6 months ago) then my partner got made redundant. but things are looking up in certain areas so im hoping i will soon be back to my old self soon but no i dont like myself right now and i think my life is crap tbh i dont feel as though i live my life i feel as though right now im just exsisting and not living. Sounds like you need to check out this site as well! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wendy6leigh Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 hi every one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foxy lady Posted November 25, 2009 Share Posted November 25, 2009 Yes I like who I am. We all have our ups and downs. I had a short period of self loathing after I lost my baby, but I am on top of things again. Overall I don't think I would want to wake up one morning as someone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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