Alien Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 I don't follow you!. A paedophile would,nt look twice at her, for the simple reason, she looks like an adult. But 90% of men would, for the simlpe reason, she looks like an adult. Well of course he would if he actually believed a 17yr old was 14. Hell my daughter's 14 but sometimes I'm sure I got the conception dates wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danot Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Which is a preference played upon by the porn industry more than you perhaps realise. They can find plenty of 18 year olds who look as young as 13. They are working around the law whilst maintaining the assumption, rightly, that a significant number of men unashamedly enjoy looking at the pre-pubescent female form. Only the law makes it black and white. Of course i'm aware of it. I completely agree that the law allows the porn industry to exploit the concept of having sex with children.. it's well out of order. But as you say, theres a market for it.. seek and thy shall find. But I still refuse to tolerate, make exceptions, or try to understand, anyone that was showing me signs of needing children to satisfy their sexual urges. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epiphany Posted February 19, 2010 Author Share Posted February 19, 2010 What are you talking about, finding some girl attractive that looks about 18-ish is'nt paedophilia, its human instict to feel that way towards an fully developed attractive member of the opposite sex that ticks all the boxes. Clearly its sexually instinctive for certain people to feel attracted towards semi or under developed members of the opposite or same sex. That's the thing with sexuality - there is no universal human "instinct". But that doesn't mean they want to rape/harm a child in the real world, which is a criminal issue, just as I am not a threat to all the women I come across every day or fantasise about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*_ash_* Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Of course i'm aware of it. I completely agree that the law allows the porn industry to exploit the concept of having sex with children.. it's well out of order. Finally!!, we're getting somewhere. So you do think there are grey areas then? That's all that anyone is debating. It just went slightly off course on page 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epiphany Posted February 19, 2010 Author Share Posted February 19, 2010 But as you say, theres a market for it.. seek and thy shall find. But I still refuse to tolerate, make exceptions, or try to understand, anyone that was showing me signs of needing children to satisfy their sexual urges. Signs which you still haven't been clear about! If I knew what signs you were looking out for, I might be able to better understand your absolutism on the issue, since I'd consider you far more capable than I of sniffing out a potential child rapist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sccsux Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Why do some people see the world in black and white Colour blindness? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epiphany Posted February 19, 2010 Author Share Posted February 19, 2010 Why do some people see the world in black and white Colour blindness? C'mere you... mmmmmmmmmwwwaaaa!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danot Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 And if you'd been able to read the minds of those that conned or duped you would your reply be the same? No it wouldn't. It would be "no, I can sniff em a mile off". So..if you're unable to avoid being duped (as would be because you're unable to read a mind) How do you know who's a paedophile (VERY VERY cunning) when you're so easily duped by "more times than I care to mention" Joe average liar/con? So tell us...what's the magic that you have that we don't have to protect those around you considering your "more times than I care to mention" history? If your argument is solely..I don't like what is going on in the mind of a paedophile..then fine I'm with you all the way with that. But to be fair..I couldn't pick one out on the street..or even my living room if he/she had a mindset not to. Unless of course he/she carried a bag of sweets and followed the stereotype. Which is unlikely to happen if he's a business man and drives a Porche. I was'nt being critasized last night for believing that identifying paedophiles was easy. I was being critasized for believing that, thinking about having sex with children is wrong. I was repeatedly told by your good self and others, that it was'nt necessarily wrong for a paedophile to think sexually about children, it is only if they act out their fantasy that they become a risk. Iv'e never claimed that paedohpiles can be easily idendtified, so why are you suggesting I have?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danot Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Well of course he would if he actually believed a 17yr old was 14. Hell my daughter's 14 but sometimes I'm sure I got the conception dates wrong. You was talking about an over developed schoolgirl that could pass as eighteen, now you're talking about a 17 year old that looks 14. What point are you trying to make?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danot Posted February 19, 2010 Share Posted February 19, 2010 Clearly its sexually instinctive for certain people to feel attracted towards semi or under developed members of the opposite or same sex. That's the thing with sexuality - there is no universal human "instinct". But that doesn't mean they want to rape/harm a child in the real world, which is a criminal issue, just as I am not a threat to all the women I come across every day or fantasise about. We're not discussing people that desire rape of a none consenting adult. we're discussing people that desire to have sex with a consenting child. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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