falpere Posted April 17, 2010 Author Share Posted April 17, 2010 I don't thing that everyone is understanding what I am saying though. If it weren't for sites such as facebook, long lost lovers would remain so. Even when a relationship breaks down, the physical attraction can still remain. Facebook does put temptation in front of people. Get my drift? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katy1981 Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 I don't thing that everyone is understanding what I am saying though. If it weren't for sites such as facebook, long lost lovers would remain so. Even when a relationship breaks down, the physical attraction can still remain. Facebook does put temptation in front of people. Get my drift? i see your point but if ya want to find an ex then surely you can. i once wanted to find one of mine just out of curiosity, i didnt have facebook then but i found him all the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CottonTop Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 Facebook only provides the opportunity to get into trouble. And if someone is looking for trouble, they can use other means than Facebook to find it. In other words, if someone is going to cheat, then they are going to cheat. How they find the other person they cheat with is irrelevant. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alien Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 Facebook only provides the opportunity to get into trouble. And if someone is looking for trouble, they can use other means than Facebook to find it. In other words, if someone is going to cheat, then they are going to cheat. How they find the other person they cheat with is irrelevant. So succinct it in effect should finish the thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
falpere Posted April 17, 2010 Author Share Posted April 17, 2010 So succinct it in effect should finish the thread. I agree, it should finish the thread, but human nature isn't as clear cut as that Alien. Many people may look up past partners out of curiosity. Nowt wrong with that. It's when conversation takes the helm, that one thing leads to another. This can quickly re-kindle old feelings and all under secrecy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alien Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 I agree, it should finish the thread, but human nature isn't as clear cut as that Alien. Many people may look up past partners out of curiosity. Nowt wrong with that. It's when conversation takes the helm, that one thing leads to another. This can quickly re-kindle old feelings and all under secrecy. I'm not to sure what you're saying because any medium can be used as a vehicle to get a bit of extra leg over...even if you use it as an excuse you can't excuse what's in your mind by linking it with...say facebook for instance. Facebook doesn't think, it's not a living entity that controls you. When you lose control over your actions you lose control. When you bring 3rd party equations into the foray you're then using that to justify your actions or at the least to deflect your actions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghostrider Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 Its not just facebook - I found out that my other half (now my ex) was seeing someone from this site... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lockjaw Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 99% of the people on my Facebook are women and my OH doesnt care or take an interest. Come to think of it, she knows I disgust everybody on there so she probably feels safe anyway. You don't disgust me, old facebook chum, but, if you don't come & see us some time soon, I may start to feel mildly nauseous... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeremyjh1 Posted April 17, 2010 Share Posted April 17, 2010 I'm sure I could have had many affairs, I just never went looking for them... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alien Posted April 18, 2010 Share Posted April 18, 2010 I'm sure I could have had many affairs, I just never went looking for them... What if they came looking for you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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