Waldo Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 Well, I wish you well Jason (and I'm sure that's the prevailing sentiment here). Best of luck getting things in to perspective and clarity. No-one is attacking you mate, and you've not 'bothered' anyone, not in a bad way I don't think. Maybe if you take a breather, and if you feel you want to come back to this, people might have some useful insights for you? There's some cool insightful people around! All the best, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waldo Posted May 4, 2010 Share Posted May 4, 2010 On a side-note; I'm curious, if it's a common thing with people who are going through depression, if they have a tendency to interpret other peoples' comments as being attacking or hostile? (even when that's not the intent). Just curious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halibut Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 On a side-note; I'm curious, if it's a common thing with people who are going through depression, if they have a tendency to interpret other peoples' comments as being attacking or hostile? (even when that's not the intent). Just curious. I believe it is - see Purdyamos's first post in this thread , she puts it more eloquently than I can. Negative patterns of thinking can turn even the most positive of ideas or suggestions into negatives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tipex Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 i am quite happy with myself, the person inside is not perfect but then again who is, its just all the **** on the outside meaning life and everything that it throws at ya u just think whats the point yeh woman only go for arrogent cocky pricks, confidence dosnt cum into it, if woman only go for confidence then they are only ever interested in the exterior front, not what is on the inside i never get how people who get by quite happily in life treading over other people making this big act get eveything, yet those who are only being themselves and such get sod all woman only go for looks or what they can get, theyr never with any bloke for the right reasons, no wonder then, as i have the rigth reasons but end up with emptyness and loneliness, sounds abaout right If thats the case why does James Corden bag himself beautiful women? it's because he's confident and happy within himself. If all you live for is a relationship or women, then i'm sorry, but it's quite sad. Theres got to be more in your life than just women, surely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spinac Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 From the OP: i am not askin for millions just to have a settled decent job, to find someone to settle down with have a relationship the works, all i wanna do is be happy and content for once Ah, money, love, happiness eh? Do you know what they have in common? The more you chase them, the more elusive they become. "Money is usually attracted, not pursued." Jim Rohn "The secret of attraction is to love yourself. Attractive people judge neither themselves nor others. They are open to gestures of love. They think about love, and express their love in every action." Deepak Chopra "Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you." So Jason, I'd really recommend that you sit down quietly, take some time out, allow your mind to calm down and let go of any anger that you're holding on to ... Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one getting burned. Buddha Good luck! PS I don't have a job either. My last permanent job was over 3 years ago. One last quote if I may, for my benefit if nobody else's ... "Out of clutter, find simplicity. From discord, find harmony. In the middle of difficulty lies opportunity." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Speed Demon Posted May 5, 2010 Author Share Posted May 5, 2010 i do think preaching is not the right way to go about things, and woman only want to go with James Corden because he is famous with lots of money thats it, if he was on the dole and living at his mums house no lass wud go near him see woman are that shallow, thats why Hugh Hefner and Donald Trump has all these playmates is because they have money and are famous, u really think a woman with her own mind wud even go to bed with Hugh Hefner if he was on state pension and in a retirement home, i think not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spinac Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 So step 1 of our grand plan is to attract the money first from which comes the women and true fulfilment. But how? Anyone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris_Sleeps Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 So step 1 of our grand plan is to attract the money ... But how? Write a sitcom, maybe? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amaranthus Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 So step 1 of our grand plan is to attract the money first from which comes the women and true fulfilment. But how? Anyone? "In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women. " - Tony Montana Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spinac Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 Money + Power + Women = Happiness No wonder I'm miserable. Think I'll go listen to The Smiths. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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