SiSiSi Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 So what will happen? You turn up & they tell you that you can't get on the bus, then what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikmouse Posted May 11, 2010 Author Share Posted May 11, 2010 I concede. Tactless example, and I apologise to Mik. I should have used an example of the children isolating one particular child as the for instance. Appology accepted. But my daughter wont be isolated. You think the school party will be the only people on the beach? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lyndix Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 Not annoyed about missing out as i wont be and neither will my daughter. Like i said, we will be attending the day trip and i just hope the school dont embarrass themselves by trying to stop me Isn`t that just teaching your child that its ok to break rules? The school shouldn`t have taken your money for the trip without explaining the crb check to you in full. they should definitely return your money to you. Why not just fill in the forms so you are crb checked for next time a trip comes up? or ask them about the list 99 (or whatever its called) our school does them so I assume they are used in most schools when its short notice for crb`s? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Babooshka Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 How weird. I went of a pre-school trip with my son and lots of other kids and their parents. Nobody asked if I was CRB checked. I AM CRB checked, but they didn't know that. I doubt ALL parents there were checked too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikmouse Posted May 11, 2010 Author Share Posted May 11, 2010 So what will happen? You turn up & they tell you that you can't get on the bus, then what? Some of the parents (me included) are driving the children to the coast. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snook Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 Some of the parents (me included) are driving the children to the coast. Was that always the plan? That makes a lot more sense as to why they would require a CRB. Could you not either ask the school to get you a CRB or only take your own child and meet them all there? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikmouse Posted May 11, 2010 Author Share Posted May 11, 2010 Was that always the plan? That makes a lot more sense. Im sure i said it somewhere in the thread but yes, the plan is for about half a dozen parents to take cars meaning they can hire a smaller and cheaper bus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BananaSplit Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 Appology accepted. But my daughter wont be isolated. You think the school party will be the only people on the beach? No I didn't mean she would be. I was just trying to think of a scenario whereby a bit of teacher/parent intervention might be needed. Children are re-knowned for falling out one week, then making friends the next. What I meant was, lets say a group of child are deliberately excluding another child. Would you intervene or would you only be concerned if it was your daughter? From your previous posts you've said you only want to go to spend time with your daughter...surely a parent who helps on these trips has got to be seen to be fair to all the children, and not just their own. (and I truly hope I've explained that well enough, because upsetting people on here is never my intention!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikmouse Posted May 11, 2010 Author Share Posted May 11, 2010 No I didn't mean she would be. I was just trying to think of a scenario whereby a bit of teacher/parent intervention might be needed. Children are re-knowned for falling out one week, then making friends the next. What I meant was, lets say a group of child are deliberately excluding another child. Would you intervene or would you only be concerned if it was your daughter? From your previous posts you've said you only want to go to spend time with your daughter...surely a parent who helps on these trips has got to be seen to be fair to all the children, and not just their own. (and I truly hope I've explained that well enough, because upsetting people on here is never my intention!) Ok ill go along with you for a while. Of course id intervene, im not just a parent im a human being and could never see an upset child left alone. But seeing as the school are being morons rather than approach the child myself id speak to a teacher and let them know. If a child was drowning, id do my my best and give my last breath to try and save it. Because like i said, im a human being. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BananaSplit Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 Im sure i said it somewhere in the thread but yes, the plan is for about half a dozen parents to take cars meaning they can hire a smaller and cheaper bus. But surely, the fact children are getting into cars with adults is an obvious reason as to needing a CRB check? Would you honestly not want that same reassurance if your daughter was being driven by someone you knew nothing about? I really don't understand your stance on this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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