Study: Children of Lesbians May Do Better Than Their Peers

[plekhanov]

Study: Children of Lesbians May Do Better Than Their Peers

 

The teen years are never the easiest for any family to navigate. But could they be even more challenging for children and parents in households headed by gay parents?

 

That is the question researchers explored in the first study ever to track children raised by lesbian parents, from birth to adolescence. Although previous studies have indicated that children with same-sex parents show no significant differences compared with children in heterosexual homes when it comes to social development and adjustment, many of those investigations involved children who were born to women in heterosexual marriages, who later divorced and came out as lesbians.

 

For their new study, published on Monday in the journal Pediatrics, researchers Nanette Gartrell, a professor of psychiatry at the University of California at San Francisco (and a law professor at the University of California, Los Angeles), and Henry Bos, a behavioral scientist at the University of Amsterdam, focused on what they call planned lesbian families — households in which the mothers identified themselves as lesbian at the time of artificial insemination.

 

Data on such families are sparse, but they are important for establishing whether a child's environment in a home with same-sex parents would be any more or less nurturing than one with a heterosexual couple.

 

The authors found that children raised by lesbian mothers — whether the mother was partnered or single — scored very similarly to children raised by heterosexual parents on measures of development and social behavior. These findings were expected, the authors said; however, they were surprised to discover that children in lesbian homes scored higher than kids in straight families on some psychological measures of self-esteem and confidence, did better academically and were less likely to have behavioral problems, such as rule-breaking and aggression.

 

 

"We simply expected to find no difference in psychological adjustment between adolescents reared in lesbian families and the normative sample of age-matched controls," says Gartrell. "I was surprised to find that on some measures we found higher levels of [psychological] competency and lower levels of behavioral problems. It wasn't something I anticipated."

 

In addition, children in same-sex-parent families whose mothers ended up separating did as well as children in lesbian families in which the moms stayed together.

 

The data that Gartrell and Bos analyzed came from the U.S. National Longitudinal Lesbian Family Study (NLLFS), begun in 1986. The authors included 154 women in 84 families who underwent artificial insemination to start a family; the parents agreed to answer questions about their children's social skills, academic performance and behavior at five follow-up times over the 17-year study period. Children in the families were interviewed by researchers at age 10 and were then asked at age 17 to complete an online questionnaire, which included queries about the teens' activities, social lives, feelings of anxiety or depression, and behavior.

 

Not surprisingly, the researchers found that 41% of children reported having endured some teasing, ostracism or discrimination related to their being raised by same-sex parents. But Gartrell and Bos could find no differences on psychological adjustment tests between the children and those in a group of matched controls. At age 10, children reporting discrimination did exhibit more signs of psychological stress than their peers, but by age 17, the feelings had dissipated. "Obviously there are some factors that may include family support and changes in education about appreciation for diversity that may be helping young people to come to a better place despite these experiences," says Gartrell.

 

It's not clear exactly why children of lesbian mothers tend to do better than those in heterosexual families on certain measures. But after studying gay and lesbian families for 24 years, Gartrell has some theories. "They are very involved in their children's lives," she says of the lesbian parents. "And that is a great recipe for healthy outcomes for children. Being present, having good communication, being there in their schools, finding out what is going on in their schools and various aspects of the children's lives is very, very important."

 

Although active involvement isn't unique to lesbian households, Gartrell notes that same-sex mothers tend to make that kind of parenting more of a priority. Because their children are more likely to experience discrimination and stigmatization as a result of their family circumstances, these mothers can be more likely to broach complicated topics, such as sexuality and diversity and tolerance, with their children early on. Having such a foundation may help to give these children more confidence and maturity in dealing with social differences and prejudices as they get older.

 

Because the research is ongoing, Gartrell hopes to test some of these theories with additional studies. She is also hoping to collect more data on gay-father households; gay fatherhood is less common than lesbian motherhood because of the high costs of surrogacy or adoption that gay couples face in order to start a family.

It's only one study of course but it adds a bit more to the ever growing pile of evidence which suggests not having heterosexual parents is anything but disastrous for children.

[Bloomdido]

I hope so. I have two daughters who prefer touching the velvet.

[HeadingNorth]

This may be explained by the "planned" part of the study. There aren't many lesbian couples who have unplanned artificial insemination, so there won't be many children arriving into families that would rather be without them...

[Harleyman]

I'm curious though. Never having had a man around the house will the kids have difficulty relating to men when reaching adulthood

[discodown]

I'm curious though. Never having had a man around the house will the kids have difficulty relating to men when reaching adulthood

Presumably only as much as children who are raised by a single mother

[cgksheff]

"According to their mothers' reports, the 17-year-old daughters and sons of lesbian mothers were rated significantly higher in social, school/academic, and total competence and significantly lower in social problems, rule-breaking, aggressive, and externalizing problem behavior than their age-matched counterparts ......"

 

 

http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/cgi/content/abstract/peds.2009-3153v1

[Dogs Of War]

I hope so. I have two daughters who prefer touching the velvet.

 

:hihi::hihi:

 

Brilliant

[plekhanov]

I'm curious though. Never having had a man around the house will the kids have difficulty relating to men when reaching adulthood

Oh come on it's not as if lesbians live in women only communes and home school their children (well none I've heard of do anyway). Like most children the children of lesbians interact with plenty of adults who aren't their parents.

[cgksheff]

"These findings may be explained in part by the NLLFS mothers’ commitment even before their offspring were born to be fully

engaged in the process of parenting.

During pregnancy, the prospective mothers took classes and formed support groups to learn about childrearing.

They were actively involved in the education of their children23–25 and aspired to remain close to them, however unique their interests, orientations, and preferences may be.

To the extent that the NLLFS mothers may have achieved this goal, numerous studies showed that having a satisfying relationship with one’s parents is associated with a more favorable adolescent adjustment."

 

 

... also they recognise that another limitation may be that the study families are likely to be more affluent (than the general population comparisons) in that they could afford the costs of insemination.

[plekhanov]

"These findings may be explained in part by the NLLFS mothers’ commitment even before their offspring were born to be fully

engaged in the process of parenting.

During pregnancy, the prospective mothers took classes and formed support groups to learn about childrearing.

They were actively involved in the education of their children23–25 and aspired to remain close to them, however unique their interests, orientations, and preferences may be.

To the extent that the NLLFS mothers may have achieved this goal, numerous studies showed that having a satisfying relationship with one’s parents is associated with a more favorable adolescent adjustment."

 

 

... also they recognise that another limitation may be that the study families are likely to be more affluent (than the general population comparisons) in that they could afford the costs of insemination.

You seem to be confusing expensive treatments like IVF for those with fertility problems & simply getting some donor sperm from the sperm bank which costs a fraction of complicated treatments like IVF.