Lifes little (often hurtful) twists!

[sandbox]

READ THIS. LET IT REALLY SINK IN.

 

THEN CHOOSE HOW YOU START YOUR DAY TOMORROW.

 

Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate.

 

He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say:

 

When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were

any better, I would be twins!" He was a natural motivator. If an employee was

having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee how to look on

the positive side of the situation.

 

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael

and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the

time. How do you do it?"

 

Michael replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two

choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be

in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad

happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I

choose to learn from it.

 

Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their

complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the

positive side of life.

 

"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.

 

"Yes, it is," Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away

all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to

situations. You choose how people affect your mood. Your bottom line: It's

your choice how you live life."

 

I reflected on what Michael said. Soon thereafter, I left the Tower

Industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him

when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.

 

Several years later, I heard that Michael was involved in a serious

accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower.

 

After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Michael was

released from the hospital with rods placed in his back.

 

I saw Michael about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he

was, he replied.

 

"If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"

 

I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his

mind as the accident took place. "The first thing that went through my

mind was the well-being of my soon to be born daughter, " Michael replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die.

 

I chose to live."

 

Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Michael continued, "...the paramedics were great. they kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read "he's a dead man. I knew I needed to take action."

 

"What did you do?" I asked.

 

"Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Michael. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. "Yes, I replied." The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, "Gravity." Over their laughter, I told them, "I am choosing to

live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."

 

Michael lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude.

 

I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.

 

"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about

itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

 

After all today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.

[Ghozer]

That is basically what I was saying a few weeks back, its your life, your choices, so make the most of them.. you have no one to blame but yourself for how you feel at the end of the day.

 

this might seem a flip from my OP, but the OP wasn't because I had a problem, it was just something that I thought about and realised - but it is some sound advise

[Northrend]

Indeed. Certainly gets me looking in to a new light..

[Lotusflower]

READ THIS. LET IT REALLY SINK IN.

 

THEN CHOOSE HOW YOU START YOUR DAY TOMORROW.

 

Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate.

 

He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say:

 

When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were

any better, I would be twins!" He was a natural motivator. If an employee was

having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee how to look on

the positive side of the situation.

 

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael

and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the

time. How do you do it?"

 

Michael replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, you have two

choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be

in a bad mood. I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad

happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I

choose to learn from it.

 

Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their

complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the

positive side of life.

 

"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.

 

"Yes, it is," Michael said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away

all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to

situations. You choose how people affect your mood. Your bottom line: It's

your choice how you live life."

 

I reflected on what Michael said. Soon thereafter, I left the Tower

Industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him

when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.

 

Several years later, I heard that Michael was involved in a serious

accident, falling some 60 feet from a communications tower.

 

After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Michael was

released from the hospital with rods placed in his back.

 

I saw Michael about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he

was, he replied.

 

"If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"

 

I declined to see his wounds, but I did ask him what had gone through his

mind as the accident took place. "The first thing that went through my

mind was the well-being of my soon to be born daughter, " Michael replied. "Then, as I lay on the ground, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die.

 

I chose to live."

 

Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Michael continued, "...the paramedics were great. they kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read "he's a dead man. I knew I needed to take action."

 

"What did you do?" I asked.

 

"Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Michael. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. "Yes, I replied." The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, "Gravity." Over their laughter, I told them, "I am choosing to

live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."

 

Michael lived, thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude.

 

I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.

 

"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about

itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

 

After all today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.

 

Hi sandbox, I hav'nt read a better post this year than this one. Thankyou!

[poppins]

Friend of mine use to say many times , up's & downs, even tragedies & disappointments are easy to take, it's every day living that can be a S.O.B.