euro_fever Posted July 15, 2010 Author Share Posted July 15, 2010 I presume he pays child support then?. No because he cant afford to, but he does look after my son while we visit, He did have a good job, but he lost it due to cuts backs so now hes working nights in a factory, I dont claim child tax or any other benefits just my benefits and the child benefit Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloomdido Posted July 15, 2010 Share Posted July 15, 2010 Not if the social are paying them both. Silly me. He is her daughter's father so I suppose it is good for her that they see lots of each other. He works night shifts and rents privately though so the assumption is that she is claiming while she is bringing up her son but the daughter lives with him so ...... Peoples' lives are complicated and it is so hard not to judge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ukstudent Posted July 15, 2010 Share Posted July 15, 2010 You're being silly No I'm not. she doesn't need a solicitor, she's not being charged with any offence Says who? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alex3659 Posted July 15, 2010 Share Posted July 15, 2010 No because he cant afford to, but he does look after my son while we visit, He did have a good job, but he lost it due to cuts backs so now hes working nights in a factory, I dont claim child tax or any other benefits just my benefits and the child benefit You should be claiming tax credits and living together, not pretending to live apart to claim the social. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
euro_fever Posted July 15, 2010 Author Share Posted July 15, 2010 Silly me. He is her daughter's father so I suppose it is good for her that they see lots of each other. He works night shifts and rents privately though so the assumption is that she is claiming while she is bringing up her son but the daughter lives with him so ...... Peoples' lives are complicated and it is so hard not to judge. Im sorry thats my fault, I have 1 child only and its a boy, I put daughter by mistake as my first thought was to pretend i had a daughter so people wouldnt know it was me posting, this entire thing has made me paranoid, Sorry, 1 son, lives with me, we dont want to live with his dad, we are settled here but we do spend time together and at some point in the future we would like a house together in this area where my son is already settled at nursery and my family are close by Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stonewaller Posted July 15, 2010 Share Posted July 15, 2010 No I'm not. Says who? He really thinks that he knows everything. The pills that he pops gives him delusions of grandeur. He does not realise how much people dislike him, which I find very odd indeed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OOmpa Posted July 15, 2010 Share Posted July 15, 2010 Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but if they have sent a letter to your partners house addressed to you they will already have evidence that you are living there/or staying there frequently. They will have been watching your movements, probably for quite a while now which they are quite entitled to do! Please get some legal advice as soon as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
euro_fever Posted July 15, 2010 Author Share Posted July 15, 2010 You should be claiming tax credits and living together, not pretending to live apart to claim the social. We are not pretending, I dont want to live with him, whats so wrong with that? And claiming the social isnt fun, its horrid living on a pittance each week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rupert_Baehr Posted July 15, 2010 Share Posted July 15, 2010 Ensure you have a solicitor present if you are interviewed. You're being silly - she doesn't need a solicitor, she's not being charged with any offence. But according to the OP "...they wouldnt speak to me over the phone, and said i needed an interview under caution which will be recorded to give my side,..." UK student's advice sounds pretty good to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
investigator Posted July 15, 2010 Share Posted July 15, 2010 You're being silly - she doesn't need a solicitor, she's not being charged with any offence. That wouldn't be my advice and I conduct these interviews every week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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