Cyclone Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 Is it just a bit of complacency and boredom? If so, maybe you just need to do something slightly different and exciting to remind you why you're with your husband. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kthebean Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 Yes its perfectly normal. This is quite a good article: http://www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2010/jul/14/mistaking-lust-for-love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snook Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 I think it is completely normal to think these things and have these urges. If you have a strong relationship then you will hopefully fight off these feelings. Even if you slip, it doesn't always mean your relationship is doomed or that you should move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
medusa Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 There's a world of difference between thinking that the grass is greener and actually acting on it. It's perfectly normal to wonder and think about how different things could be, but it's up to you to take the decision to respect your husband enough not to put any of it into action. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darrlaura Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 I think you just reach a point where boredom and routine sets in, and the desire to meet and sleep with other people arises...both in men and women! Who says women are not prone to cheating their partners as well?! It doesn't mean they fell out of love with their partners, not that I'm condoning it, but couples fall into a pattern after a few years and as Cyclone said, things needed to be done to remind each other why they were in love and together in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samstar999 Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 it's normal because men are different from women. Of course some women also feel like that but generally when a woman is happy and satisfied with her parner she is content just to be with him for the rest of her life and doesn't feel the need to have sex with other men... On the flip side, there are also some men who are like that but there are more that do get the urge to 'sow their oats' so to speak, every so often. I'll probably get slated for this but i don't care because it's true and i don't mince my words when it comes to the truth. what utter tosh!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amaranthus Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 what utter tosh!!! Would you like to elaborate? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bulgarian Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 Is it just a bit of complacency and boredom? If so, maybe you just need to do something slightly different and exciting to remind you why you're with your husband. Like an armed robbery, Bonnie and Clyde style. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyclone Posted July 21, 2010 Share Posted July 21, 2010 Like an armed robbery, Bonnie and Clyde style. It'd probably qualify as a break from the norm and a bit different to the normal 9 to 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
undecided Posted July 21, 2010 Author Share Posted July 21, 2010 Thank you for all your replies. Just was starting to feel like I wasn't normal! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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