Suffragette1 Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 I didn't think people went on "dates" anymore. I've only been on one in my life. In my experience people get to know one another through friends and social occasions, going to the same places, arranging nights out with mates etc.... I think that the culture has changed somewhat, since online dating took off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fareast Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 I think about ' one date before sex ' is about the norm, these days. Back in the '50 's and '60's, I remember, it often took two dates or even three, before us young ones got down to the ' nitty-gritty ' [ and Sheffield was VERY gritty in those far-off days ! ]. Being very broad-minded and easy-going, so to speak, I would add that before some gay ' nitty-gritty ', it wasn 't even necessary to actually go on a date. I don 't know about these days-----maybe it 's about the same ? Back in the 50 's & 60 's, a first date and first-time sex, were often ' rolled into one ' at the local cinema. The warmth, the darkness......and maybe the film [ ? ] all combined to explode those teenage hormones. Another ingredient in the whole business was whether your parents had gone out or not. If they had decided to go down the local pub, for example, could mean that with a quick bit of ' people-smuggling ', one could often have sex very early on in a relationship ; probably well before any ' date ' . I suppose some people need lots of dates before they take the plunge [ sic ! ] but, personally, I think that 's a bit timid. ' Grab the iron, whilst it 's hot ' is my motto, but, of course, sometimes one 's fingers DO get burned ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SiSiSi Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 It's late so I haven't read the whole of this thread. Surely you meant to give it the title 'how many minutes....?' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carpetviper Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 How many dates do you think people generally have with each other before having sex? What your supposed to go on a date first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaznay Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 What your supposed to go on a date first. why waste time datin...lifes too short Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boyfriday Posted August 6, 2010 Share Posted August 6, 2010 I don't have rules... But then again I don't seem to have dates anymore either. :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EdnaKrabappe Posted August 6, 2010 Share Posted August 6, 2010 :cry: :cry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Glypta Posted August 6, 2010 Share Posted August 6, 2010 I don't have rules... But then again I don't seem to have dates anymore either. Dates always give me diarrhea. Is it something they put in my drinks? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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