Babooshka Posted August 15, 2010 Share Posted August 15, 2010 You can keep Brad Pitt. He does nothing for me whatsoever. Now this man?......NOW you're talking. Think I have fancied him since I was 12!!!!!! http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.topnews.in/files/039_34561~Matt-Dillon-Posters.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.topnews.in/us-film-star-matt-dillon-detained-speeding-2103070&h=450&w=355&sz=47&tbnid=MBf_oTn0Qg-1TM:&tbnh=127&tbnw=100&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dmatt%2Bdillon&hl=en&usg=__0w3Ftd4GlEApv8xHzwjhI1f97MU=&sa=X&ei=y4tnTI2sOsKV4AbDnu2YBA&ved=0CEYQ9QEwAw Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
horribleblob Posted August 15, 2010 Share Posted August 15, 2010 I am definitely attracted to a type: left wing, highly intelligent, well informed, emotionally intelligent, interesting, witty, self-deprecating, funny, loves women and the company of women and must be a bon vivant. Looks are secondary to all of the above. A bit like the holy grail which I why I held onto him when I met him. Self-deprecation is all well and good if it's not exploited maliciously by the other person. I wonder how many women would be attracted to a man who listed "self-deprecation" as a trait he found attractive in a partner? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hitch_1980 Posted August 15, 2010 Share Posted August 15, 2010 Kate Walsh in Greys Anatomy would be my ideal women Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melthebell Posted August 15, 2010 Share Posted August 15, 2010 Nice eyes, broad shoulders, nice butt and clean shaven. a nice broad clean shaven butt? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaznay Posted August 15, 2010 Author Share Posted August 15, 2010 Nice eyes, broad shoulders, nice butt and clean shaven. thought you liked hairy men a nice broad clean shaven butt? :hihi: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted August 15, 2010 Share Posted August 15, 2010 Self-deprecation is all well and good if it's not exploited maliciously by the other person. I wonder how many women would be attracted to a man who listed "self-deprecation" as a trait he found attractive in a partner? True, however, that could be interpreted in a number of ways. Do (some) men find self-deprecation attractive in women? Some of the best female comedians have made a living out of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
horribleblob Posted August 15, 2010 Share Posted August 15, 2010 But is that not likely to be just an act and those comedians so secure in themslves that it's not a real-life issue? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted August 15, 2010 Share Posted August 15, 2010 But is that not likely to be just an act and those comedians so secure in themslves that it's not a real-life issue? I'm sure that a lot of it is rooted in insecurity. However, I think that there is a world of difference between a healthy dose of self-deprecation (I can't stand men who are full of themselves) and someone who has serious self-esteem issues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
altus Posted August 15, 2010 Share Posted August 15, 2010 I'm sure that a lot of it is rooted in insecurity. However, I think that there is a world of difference between a healthy dose of self-deprecation (I can't stand men who are full of themselves) and someone who has serious self-esteem issues. Don't people claim they don't take themselves too seriously rather than claim to be self deprecating. That does at least avoid any negative connotations that self deprecation can have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted August 15, 2010 Share Posted August 15, 2010 Don't people claim they don't take themselves too seriously rather than claim to be self deprecating. That does at least avoid any negative connotations that self deprecation can have. I suppose, but I would class that as self-deprecation rather than having serious self-esteem issues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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