Mutts Nutts Posted September 18, 2010 Share Posted September 18, 2010 Should a man ask a girl for references before he gets serious about her.. There's no point is there in wasting a few weeks if someone can tell you that she's not much kop....I know you don't have to believe them because of ulterior motives but it could be an indicator could it not... I'm open to suggestions:love: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
[Matt] Posted September 18, 2010 Share Posted September 18, 2010 best to stay single and see girls casually if you ask me... No references needed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mutts Nutts Posted September 18, 2010 Author Share Posted September 18, 2010 ;6699032']best to stay single and see girls casually if you ask me... No references needed. Can't afford all that and don't like Attercliffe Common that much either..bit sleazy even for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katy1981 Posted September 18, 2010 Share Posted September 18, 2010 Should a man ask a girl for references before he gets serious about her.. There's no point is there in wasting a few weeks if someone can tell you that she's not much kop....I know you don't have to believe them because of ulterior motives but it could be an indicator could it not... I'm open to suggestions:love: it depends what you want from the relationship with that perticular women/relationship. from my experiances some men seem to see some women as marriage material (the ones you take home to meet mum) and then some as fun time ones who are disposable and ok in the short term for some fun (you would never take them home to mum or marry them!) either way i reckon the women wouldnt be too chuffed if you asked for a reference im laughing now thinking of what some men might say about their exs ref # 1 " not a long term investment, bad points - she had the local takeaway on speed dial and had a nervous breakdown when she broke a nail or if i saw her without make up on but on the plus side she was smoking hot too look at, my mates were always eyeing her up! and man was she wild in the bedroom, my mum would not like this woman they never met" ref # 2 "brilliant investment and worth the long term effort, plus points - will remain faithfull due to a deep routed lack of self esteem so will also tolerate all kinds of reckless behaviour on your part, will stay home with your kids and cook and clean all day with a smile on her face, my mum loved her. bad points - poor in the bedroom (always has a headache and not willing to try new things) bit too chirpy, not sexy too look at (frumpy) eats junk and complains shes fat. you may be asking why shes now available? well i traded her in for a newer model she is a good and reliable investment untill you can get somethign a bit better too look at. :hihi::hihi: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
libertarian Posted September 18, 2010 Share Posted September 18, 2010 Should a man ask a girl for references before he gets serious about her.. There's no point is there in wasting a few weeks if someone can tell you that she's not much kop....I know you don't have to believe them because of ulterior motives but it could be an indicator could it not... I'm open to suggestions:love: Only if you are offering her references about you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mutts Nutts Posted September 18, 2010 Author Share Posted September 18, 2010 Only if you are offering her references about you... Plenty of money will do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mutts Nutts Posted September 18, 2010 Author Share Posted September 18, 2010 it depends what you want from the relationship with that perticular women/relationship. from my experiances some men seem to see some women as marriage material (the ones you take home to meet mum) and then some as fun time ones who are disposable and ok in the short term for some fun (you would never take them home to mum or marry them!) either way i reckon the women wouldnt be too chuffed if you asked for a reference im laughing now thinking of what some men might say about their exs ref # 1 " not a long term investment, bad points - she had the local takeaway on speed dial and had a nervous breakdown when she broke a nail or if i saw her without make up on but on the plus side she was smoking hot too look at, my mates were always eyeing her up! and man was she wild in the bedroom, my mum would not like this woman they never met" ref # 2 "brilliant investment and worth the long term effort, plus points - will remain faithfull due to a deep routed lack of self esteem so will also tolerate all kinds of reckless behaviour on your part, will stay home with your kids and cook and clean all day with a smile on her face, my mum loved her. bad points - poor in the bedroom (always has a headache and not willing to try new things) bit too chirpy, not sexy too look at (frumpy) eats junk and complains shes fat. you may be asking why shes now available? well i traded her in for a newer model she is a good and reliable investment untill you can get somethign a bit better too look at. :hihi::hihi: Very good...like all that:hihi: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katy1981 Posted September 18, 2010 Share Posted September 18, 2010 Very good...like all that:hihi: my partner just asked me what i was laughing at so i read it to him and now hes laughing away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattricia Posted September 18, 2010 Share Posted September 18, 2010 The only reference I need from a man is to see his bank book. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chem1st Posted September 18, 2010 Share Posted September 18, 2010 Should a man ask a girl for references before he gets serious about her.. There's no point is there in wasting a few weeks if someone can tell you that she's not much kop....I know you don't have to believe them because of ulterior motives but it could be an indicator could it not... I'm open to suggestions:love: Who are you expecting the references to be from? I suppose it would depend on what type of girl your looking for. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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