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i am grown up.

 

<REMOVED> more?, this isnt about being horny, its about love.

 

Ok i'll play...

 

Yes it is about horny and much more. You actually don't understand the concept of love.

 

More than likely it's about inadequacy. Alone, frightened, weight/features issues. It's a little sad but reading your scenario just points to an over active imagination because of the above. Why? Because you don't understand that the scenario is not normal, no one could advise because no normal person has experienced your wishful thinking. You think it is normal..that's why you're asking advice.

 

The only advice if true is...seek a councillor, Phil.;)

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i am happy with my girlfriend, not just happy, LUCKY, very lucky, infact i want to marry her or i had planned on before this whole situation....

 

yes i am asking for more but i DO NOT want to, i dont want more girls, i dont care about girls, i'd never even touch another girl while i'm with my girlfriend HOWEVER these 3 other girls aren't just any girl otherwise i wouldnt be in love with them. I think if i HAD to choose one, it would probably be my girlfriend because we've known each other for years.

 

and you say that i'm "asking for 3 more", no, if it were up to me and i could control what i think, i wouldn't want any others, ever. it's not like i woke up one day and thought "hmm, i think i'll find 3 more girls i like...", it just happened.

so yes, i do want them but i DONT want to want them.

 

My bold, You have successfully answered your own question, now do one :)

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I would like some advice, I'm in love with 4 girls, one of them is my girlfriend and she is amazing, the other is her friend but her friend also likes me (or loves me, not too sure yet as we have not acted on how we feel)

 

the other 2 are other girls i known, 1 i've know for over a year and the other one i have met recently.

 

I dont know what to do, is this normal??

 

you'll probably criticize me and say that i cant be in love with 4 girls but i think about ALL of them, its not just lust.

 

Guys, would u cheat in this situation and keep it quiet? or would u pick one?

 

the problem is, they are all so beautiful and amazing, help me :(

 

what on earth are you expecting the good folk of SF to tell you ?

how about -

 

1. it's perfectly normal to be in love with 4 women at the same time, don't worry about it.

2. set up a 4-some they are all gagging for it

3. cheat and keep your gob shut.

4. grow up sad boy.

 

hope that helps

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stay clear from the girls you dont have, and stay with the one you do.

you will end up breaking your girlfriends heart and break her friendship with her friend if you even attempt to even go there with her friend.

 

1 woman that you love should be enough

2 women is an headache

3 women is a nightmare

and 4 is suicidal

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I would like some advice, I'm in love with 4 girls, one of them is my girlfriend and she is amazing, the other is her friend but her friend also likes me (or loves me, not too sure yet as we have not acted on how we feel)

 

the other 2 are other girls i known, 1 i've know for over a year and the other one i have met recently.

 

I dont know what to do, is this normal??

 

you'll probably criticize me and say that i cant be in love with 4 girls but i think about ALL of them, its not just lust.

 

Guys, would u cheat in this situation and keep it quiet? or would u pick one?

 

the problem is, they are all so beautiful and amazing, help me :(

 

got any tips??

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EXACTLY!!!

 

these girls are amazing in every way and all have their own unique qualities.

 

if i only loved girls because of their looks, i'd be in love with a lot more than just 3 ....i can't believe i have to state these obvious facts.

you will be ok once you reach puberty:hihi:

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