cheapthrillz Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 Maybe she's just playing hard to get? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheapthrillz Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 or impossible.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheapthrillz Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 The point is without meaning to sound harsh, if this women isn't really that interested in meeting you for whatever reason, then why would you want to meet her anyway? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RichD Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 Sorry to say it mate, but it looks like you should move onto the next one. I'm basing this on what you said in your initial post: I gave her a bit of space she wanted before we agreed to meet If she said she wanted space, it may mean you came on a little too strong, or said something that worried her. It's easy done; I've been known to do such things myself in person and got myself an undeserved reputation for a while, until said group got to know me a bit better and realised I just didn't have the best social skills and had come across wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alien Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 Sounds like a bunny boiler..the op that is. Funny isn't it when someone has never met the object of their desire and use the term 'I gave her a bit of space'. How very reasonable of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strix Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 Arguably men use these sites more for looking for sex than women do for attention, so, boot on the other foot - how do you navigate through the minefied of predators out there? If you're genuine, think twice before you type Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emma&james Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 Maybe she has just realise what a mug you are from your last massage. the way you pester about meeting her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rupert_Baehr Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 Maybe things are not quite as they seem? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
relost Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 Greetings ye old sheffielders, maybe it's wrong forum but i could do some advice regarding internet dating and how women use these things, one minute they're keen the next nothing. I've been in contact with this women I really liked on a dating website, we exchanged many IM's and therefore presumed she was definitely interested, I gave her a bit of space she wanted before we agreed to meet and I now know she has read my last message from over a week ago but not responded, as the message stated it had been read and deleted, so should I follow it up or just presume she's like many other women who just love use dating websites because they love all the attention? Maybe she's just really nervous? Or had 2nd thoughts? I tried internet dating before I met my lovely fiance. I had one terrible experience where I was almost assaulted sexually (but obviously it was my fault for giving out all the wrong signals). I even tried internet dating again and got talking to a lovely guy. He kept asking me to meet but in the end I felt there was too much pressure. To him he probably just thought he was being friendly, but it made me nervous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
relost Posted January 8, 2011 Share Posted January 8, 2011 I think you should send her another message, one which just asks how she is etc and if she doesn't reply then just find someone else. I don't believe that the paying sites are worth it when there is at least 2 mentioned on this forum that are free. I don't think urls are allowed to be posted but just remember there is plenty of fish out there who but there faith in sites and just say okcupid find me someone. URLs and links are allowed. Just thought I'd let you know with you being new to the site and all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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