mrsfairest Posted January 20, 2011 Share Posted January 20, 2011 I will tell you what i will be your bridesmaid and i would wear a black bag for you.It shouldnt matter what you wear as its not their day its yours and onky you should stand out! Just be true to yourself and be happy after all it is YOUR WEDDING DAY!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veronica0 Posted January 20, 2011 Share Posted January 20, 2011 How can people be so nasty,but remember why you are getting married and who to,so I would tell the lot of them you dont need any of them as long as youve got your other half and the vicar,tell them they are causing you to much stress when you could do without it and if they want to come then they are welcome but you wont be begging,as for the bridesmaids they should see this as an honour and wear what you want them too,and if they dont like it ask them if they want to step down and get another friend or relative to step in even if you lose money at least you will have someone who wants to do the job It sounds to me as though you have done everthing you can.Im sure nyou will have a lovely day no matter how many people turn up Be Happy Clare Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veronica0 Posted January 20, 2011 Share Posted January 20, 2011 How can people be so nasty,but remember why you are getting married and who to,so I would tell the lot of them you dont need any of them as long as youve got your other half and the vicar,tell them they are causing you to much stress when you could do without it and if they want to come then they are welcome but you wont be begging,as for the bridesmaids they should see this as an honour and wear what you want them too,and if they dont like it ask them if they want to step down and get another friend or relative to step in even if you lose money at least you will have someone who wants to do the job It sounds to me as though you have done everthing you can.Im sure you will have a lovely day no matter how many people turn up Be Happy Clare Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fredbear2004 Posted January 21, 2011 Share Posted January 21, 2011 i'd say to everyone involved this is my big day this is how i'd like things to be and if they don't respect this then there welcome to stay at home remember it's about you and your partner not anyone else as long as you 2 are happy and get the day your dreaming of then sod what anyone else thinks it's your life and you've got to live withyour choices not them so do what's right and comfortable for you good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fabcakes Posted January 23, 2011 Share Posted January 23, 2011 ohhhhhh my god........ all i can say gina is i realy do feel for you to me it looks like your bridesmaids are wanting them to be in the limeligt not you at the end of the day its you thats getting married not them i think they seem to have forgottern that when it is all kicking off take a deep breath count to 3 & just tell tem its your day shout it if you have to its so wrong of the bridesmaids to want 2 dresses just tell them if they want a second dress they pay for it not you they are being just greedy when people are stressing at you once again take a deep breath & tell them its your day not thairs & just let you enjoy planning YOUR wedding please i realy do hope you manage to sort it out its just not fair when people just take over & forget about the bride & groom after all its your day :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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