vizsla Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 Only split last autumn and when my ex picks up child or returns him its very awkward, Im just quiet and he doesnt even look at me. No awkward texts or anything. Does this go on and on.? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rampent Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 Depends on how much you hate each other. And who got caught out first IMO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cressida Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 If he picks the child up by car, wait till you hear the car door shut and then send the child to him How old is the child? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
medusa Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 It goes on until you decide to make it stop. Grit your teeth and talk to him; address him like a normal human being- ask him what they're planning to do, or where they're eating, or anything else that's not a conflict question. To start with it will feel like a completely false thing to do, but it is in your little one's best interests to cooperate and not turn into opposing warring factions and if he's got your little one's interests at heart too then there's no reason why you can't thaw the ground between you a tad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vizsla Posted January 29, 2011 Author Share Posted January 29, 2011 The child is 5. I rejected the ex a leo nobody else involved. I do make small conversation and I am friendly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chimay Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 I agree with medusa but even then it can come back if something has upset the equilibrium. There again it might never go away. My OH and I attended my youngest's graduation last summer. My son had also invited his biological father. Son gave me three topics not to raise with ********. Guess what the three things ********raised in an effort to make somesort of conversation with me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rupert_Baehr Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 Given your name for him in the above post, shouldn't it be obvious to everybody that everything which goes wrong is his fault? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rampent Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 The child is 5. I rejected the ex a leo nobody else involved. I do make small conversation and I am friendly. Star sign? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vizsla Posted January 29, 2011 Author Share Posted January 29, 2011 He is my ex what else should I call him. Shall we refer to him as Ben. I mention hes a leo so that anyone interested in astrology would be welcome to add their two penneth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandad.Malky Posted January 29, 2011 Share Posted January 29, 2011 The better your split the better it will be for the kid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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