MOTOKO Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 We've been seeing eachother for about six months and to me that means the relationship is still in the baby stages. I'm young and I don't know where my life is headed at the moment so I'm quite relaxed about our relationship. I care for him but I have a busy life with lots of other things besides him in it. He's a bit older than me and has already said he wants me to have his babies and has mentioned marriage. He is really needy and obsessive, he says he spends his whole days thinking about me. If I don't reply to his texts straight away he gets crazy and starts panicking, asking me what's wrong. Nothing's wrong! I just have a life and don't want to pander to every single text! I've told him about this and told him he needs to chill out a bit and stop going crazy but a few days later he'll be back doing my head in! I don't know what to do about it. I wish he'd just act like a normal person and stop pushing me. I've tried talking to him and it hasn't worked, what else can I do?? :help: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T 42 Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Blow him out and find a grown up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noob Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Sounds like he`s gay. If not, tell him to man-up. Failing that, sack him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlestar Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Bin him, he sounds like a control freak!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halibut Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Unless you're prepared to put up with years of obsessive behaviour and him 'freaking out' at the slightest excuse, then you need to tell him it's over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinz Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 We've been seeing eachother for about six months and to me that means the relationship is still in the baby stages. I'm young and I don't know where my life is headed at the moment so I'm quite relaxed about our relationship. I care for him but I have a busy life with lots of other things besides him in it. He's a bit older than me and has already said he wants me to have his babies and has mentioned marriage. He is really needy and obsessive, he says he spends his whole days thinking about me. If I don't reply to his texts straight away he gets crazy and starts panicking, asking me what's wrong. Nothing's wrong! I just have a life and don't want to pander to every single text! I've told him about this and told him he needs to chill out a bit and stop going crazy but a few days later he'll be back doing my head in! I don't know what to do about it. I wish he'd just act like a normal person and stop pushing me. I've tried talking to him and it hasn't worked, what else can I do?? :help: "Needy" is enough to have me running. <shudders> Not sure what "gay" has to do with it though. (noob) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halibut Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 "Needy" is enough to have me running. <shudders> Not sure what "gay" has to do with it though. (noob) It doesn't - Noob is a bit silly that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shane39 Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Get rid! Then prepare for the stalking phase. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smithy266 Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 reckon it would get worse iif you were married. You could well be a battered wife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WeX Posted February 14, 2011 Share Posted February 14, 2011 Dump him and get a bf built like a brick outhouse. He should never bother you again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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