MOTOKO Posted March 12, 2011 Author Share Posted March 12, 2011 Does this mean your back on the market then? I'd like to go out with an independant lady, fancy a date? :D3:D:D Ha ha ha had enough of all that for a while methinks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinz Posted March 12, 2011 Share Posted March 12, 2011 Does this mean your back on the market then? I'd like to go out with an independant lady, fancy a date? :D3:D:D If she says no your not gonna call her a Lesbian are you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snook Posted March 12, 2011 Share Posted March 12, 2011 Ha ha ha had enough of all that for a while methinks. Don't worry, what he meant was 'I'm kinda desperate, fancy a quicky'. I am happy to translate the male language whenever needed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TJC1 Posted March 12, 2011 Share Posted March 12, 2011 Don't worry, what he meant was 'I'm kinda desperate, fancy a quicky'. I am happy to translate the male language whenever needed. Woah! I only asked for a date, I don't put out that easily. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dozy Posted March 12, 2011 Share Posted March 12, 2011 I had The Chat, it ended in an argument with him insulting everything in my life, basically telling me all my future plans are ridiculous and my motivations for what I want to achieve (which is to work my ass off now, to gain financial stability for my family in the future), are SELFISH and is alienating me from everyone. When I asked him to specify who "EVERYONE" is he said "well....me." He wanted me to drop everything in my life, quit my job, move out of Sheffield and away from my family and friends, become totally financially dependant on him and start making babies. And I'M the selfish one! Anyhow, that was over 2 weeks ago and surprisingly he hasn't bothered me since then. Well done you!!! What a lucky escape you've had. I once worked with someone in a similar situation to you, but she was unlucky enough to end up living in Ireland, with his family, and with a child. When she did manage to break away, he came after her and used moral blackmail (children need dads) and swore he'd change, so she agreed to giving it another go. He immediately reverted to trying to totally control her life and made her life hell with harassment when she made the final break. She said she wished she'd managed to leave him earlier, when he first showed signs of controlling behaviour, so you've definitely done the right thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacey.p Posted March 12, 2011 Share Posted March 12, 2011 id tell him to grow up cuz u want a adult not a child Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snook Posted March 12, 2011 Share Posted March 12, 2011 Woah! I only asked for a date, I don't put out that easily. Translation = 'Yep, that's exactly what I meant'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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