Frank Sidney Posted March 1, 2011 Share Posted March 1, 2011 He cant love you that much if he prefers to look at other womans bodies then talk to you, Sooner or later he will found a younger girl and dump you, better off walking out now before you have a kid and ruin the rest of your life Well I think you're wrong in just about all of that... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clairelaw123 Posted March 1, 2011 Share Posted March 1, 2011 He cant love you that much if he prefers to look at other womans bodies then talk to you, Sooner or later he will found a younger girl and dump you, better off walking out now before you have a kid and ruin the rest of your life That's absolutely ridiculous. It's similar to people saying you shouldn't watch porn when you're in a relationship, absolute poo in my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benny4 Posted March 1, 2011 Share Posted March 1, 2011 tell me if i was right or wrong in a few years time, dirty man will always be the same Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karis Posted March 1, 2011 Share Posted March 1, 2011 That's absolutely ridiculous. It's similar to people saying you shouldn't watch porn when you're in a relationship, absolute poo in my opinion. Thank GOD someone is talking sense. All these threads are filled with 'you shall not' 'you can not' and, worst of all, 'you will not'. People basing others' actions on their own hangups. No wonder the divorce rate is so high. Looking at porn is not a bad thing. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. So long as it's in moderation, it's nothing more than pure fantasy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clairelaw123 Posted March 1, 2011 Share Posted March 1, 2011 Thank GOD someone is talking sense. All these threads are filled with 'you shall not' 'you can not' and, worst of all, 'you will not'. People basing others' actions on their own hangups. No wonder the divorce rate is so high. Looking at porn is not a bad thing. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. So long as it's in moderation, it's nothing more than pure fantasy. Exactly right, both parties should be free to do these things and to talk about it, asking someone not to because of over the top paranoia is always going to be more of a problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karis Posted March 1, 2011 Share Posted March 1, 2011 Exactly right, both parties should be free to do these things and to talk about it, asking someone not to because of over the top paranoia is always going to be more of a problem. Have people been hard wired somewhere to think looking at sexually explicit material is bad in some way? I know 'we' have issues with (can't say on the forum - I've already been edited) "private time" - but if people can't talk about their basic desires, what hope of a lasting relationship do they have? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waldo Posted March 1, 2011 Share Posted March 1, 2011 It's just social conditioning mate. We need to ignore it, what other people tell us is right and proper; and start trusting our own gut instinct a little more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clairelaw123 Posted March 1, 2011 Share Posted March 1, 2011 Have people been hard wired somewhere to think looking at sexually explicit material is bad in some way? I know 'we' have issues with (can't say on the forum - I've already been edited) "private time" - but if people can't talk about their basic desires, what hope of a lasting relationship do they have? I think a healthy relationship needs openness and also 'your own time', it doesn't mean you're going to hunt down people from porn films! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloomdido Posted March 1, 2011 Share Posted March 1, 2011 vera duckworth did that to jack 30 years ago And I saw it. Classic tele. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waldo Posted March 1, 2011 Share Posted March 1, 2011 I think a healthy relationship needs openness and also 'your own time', it doesn't mean you're going to hunt down people from porn films! Why not? It could do, so long as you're not trying to hide anything from your partner, and everyone's happy etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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