Flowersfade Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 oh, my dirty mind. Lol I was gonna write sometimes when hubby is in lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaimani Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 I guess what i'm saying is that the freindships that break up relationships, or turn into relationships are noticeable, so you resister that those two were friends, now they're at it like rabbits, but all the platonic friendships that never go beyond that don't register as nothing happens and so you notice the times when friendships cross the line but not the many times they don't. good point. never really looked at it like that. will look into how many people i know who have opposite-sex friends and get back to you. good point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaimani Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 Lol I was gonna write sometimes when hubby is in lol. and we're supposed to be enlightened and deep posting on the internets and whatnot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flowersfade Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 I'm shocked at this. Why so shocked mybabe?. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruce_Shark Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 Can a man and woman really just be friends? What are your thoughts? If you're asking that question... ...deep inside, you know the answer (as it applies to you, at this particular point in time). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flowersfade Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 and we're supposed to be enlightened and deep posting on the internets and whatnot. Can't be deep and thinking all the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
medusa Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 I bet you're gorgeous, else your male friends wouldn't have bothered assisting. x I generally find that assistance can be assured if your house smells pleasantly of bacon sarnies and the stew and dumplings (followed by steamed pudding and custard) which will need eating later on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chimay Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 This is true, it always ends up in a drunken snog, after which things can never be the same again. Neither. The relationships with your male friends aren't over are they? If not, it's too soon to say what may or may not happen in the future. Saying it always ends up.... you are making a huge presumption about the relationships I have with my male friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaimani Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 I guess if its like a brother/sister friendship and neither actually 'fancy' the other it is very possible However if there is a spark of attraction between the two its going to be very difficult not to cross the barrier........if one or the other or both are already in relationships then I think it would be wise not to get too 'friendly' or there WILL be temptation and maybe heartache i did mine the wrong way round. i was with my ex from when i was fifteen to when i was twenty three. we broke up just sfter my daughter was born, 8 years ago. after a year or so we just became good friends. not sure what happened. we became more brother and sister than anything. we'd give each other dating advice etc. three years or so ago someone got it in our heads to try again 'for your baby'. we did. it lasted four hours, because we tried to kiss each other and, the moment our lips touched we just both knew it was weird. it was wrong. was gonna be the best man at her wedding but she had it in Zimbabwe and i couldn't go. very strange how that works out. it creeps me out to think we slept together once-in a good way(i think). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jason Bourne Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 I generally find that assistance can be assured if your house smells pleasantly of bacon sarnies and the stew and dumplings (followed by steamed pudding and custard) which will need eating later on That helps too x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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