danot Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 The need to reproduce is vital to the survival of every species, but in terms of compatability within our own species, is it fair to say that male/female relationships are less compatable than same sex relationships? I'm a hetrosexual male who prefers to be in the company of other men rather than with women. Obviously I'm attracted to women sexually but I prefer mens company as I find we have more in common with one another; I would imagine that women feel the same towards other women. But how would you define 'compatabilty' in regards to the perfect partner? Could it be possible that my parner that I love dearly with all my heart isn't actually my intended soul mate but a fella out there is? Please don't misunderstand what I'm saying here, I'm perfectly happy in my current relationship and I'm in no way coming out of the closet. I'm just interested in your opinions on this. Why am I attracted to women sexually when men appeal to me in every other way? I hope you understand what I'm trying to say and I haven't confused you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Total Chaos Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 The need to reproduce is vital to the survival of every species, but in terms of compatability within our own species, is it fair to say that male/female relationships are less compatable than same sex relationships? I'm a hetrosexual male who prefers to be in the company of other men rather than with women. Obviously I'm attracted to women sexually but I prefer mens company as I find we have more in common with one another; I would imagine that women feel the same towards other women. But how would you define 'compatabilty' in regards to the perfect partner? Could it be possible that my parner that I love dearly with all my heart isn't actually my intended soul mate but a fella out there is? Please don't misunderstand what I'm saying here, I'm perfectly happy in my current relationship and I'm in no way coming out of the closet. I'm just interested in your opinions on this. Why am I attracted to women sexually when men appeal to me in every other way? I hope you understand what I'm trying to say and I haven't confused you. Because women talk too much and most,if not all of a conversation, is just a load of <removed>. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vwkittie Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 I'm a heterosexual female but prefer the company of men. I honestly can't imagine preferring to be with women, I have no idea how heterosexual men do it! So I would surmise that women are the problem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manofstrad Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 I'm a hetrosexual male who prefers to be in the company of other men rather than with women. No offence, but reading between the lines, perhaps you are not as hetrosexual as you think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danot Posted March 22, 2011 Author Share Posted March 22, 2011 I'm a heterosexual female but prefer the company of men. I honestly can't imagine preferring to be with women, I have no idea how heterosexual men do it! So I would surmise that women are the problem I feel that the bond between men is stronger than that between women. I also feel(dare I say it)that the bond between men is as strong, sometimes stronger than the bond they have with their female partners. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halibut Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 The need to reproduce is vital to the survival of every species, but in terms of compatability within our own species, is it fair to say that male/female relationships are less compatable than same sex relationships? No, I don't think so. I'm a hetrosexual male who prefers to be in the company of other men rather than with women. Obviously I'm attracted to women sexually but I prefer mens company as I find we have more in common with one another; I would imagine that women feel the same towards other women. Fair enough. But how would you define 'compatabilty' in regards to the perfect partner? Could it be possible that my parner that I love dearly with all my heart isn't actually my intended soul mate but a fella out there is? I don't see why not. Please don't misunderstand what I'm saying here, I'm perfectly happy in my current relationship and I'm in no way coming out of the closet. I'm just interested in your opinions on this. Why am I attracted to women sexually when men appeal to me in every other way? Maybe you have a problem with women rather than with men - it sounds as if you're unable to relate to women other than as potential sex partners. I hope you understand what I'm trying to say and I haven't confused you. I think it's a potentially interesting subject, but you seem to be very vague as to exactly what your question is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danot Posted March 22, 2011 Author Share Posted March 22, 2011 No offence, but reading between the lines, perhaps you are not as hetrosexual as you think?I'd say none of us are manofstrad. No one is 100% hetro, saying you are is just denial. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melthebell Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Because women talk too much and most,if not all of a conversation, is just a load of <removed>. is just a load of.........................handbags and tulips? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halibut Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 I feel that the bond between men is stronger than that between women. I also feel(dare I say it)that the bond between men is as strong, sometimes stronger than the bond they have with their female partners. Sorry, I genuinely don't mean to be rude, I really don't think this actually means much - what do you mean by 'the bond between men is stronger than the bond between women'? Who are you talking about? Mates, lovers, colleagues, what? It all seems hopelessly vague to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danot Posted March 22, 2011 Author Share Posted March 22, 2011 <SNIP> I think it's a potentially interesting subject, but you seem to be very vague as to exactly what your question is. I know I'm being vague Halibut, it's hard to put into words what I 'm trying to say. I suppose what I mean is, apart from needing to reproduce, what do men and women have in common? Men in general seem much closer to other men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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