Amaranthus Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 Totally depends on the manner its given. I am spoken for but often compliment a good looking woman. I'm not a looker but dont do it in a slimy way - I am telling a good looking girl she is but I think there is a certain none threatening tone that goes with the bethrothed mans comments that makes them truly well received not slimy! How do you do it? In the middle of the street or in a more social setting, i.e. a bar? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattricia Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 Totally depends on the manner its given. I am spoken for but often compliment a good looking woman. I'm not a looker but dont do it in a slimy way - I am telling a good looking girl she is but I think there is a certain none threatening tone that goes with the bethrothed mans comments that makes them truly well received not slimy! Yes, I often admire nice looking men, with a sidewards glance, but dont say anything to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BettyBooHoo! Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 It depends on what and how it's said I guess. Two examples for you from my experience: OK comment - I once had a fella tell me that I was ''very pleasing to the eye!'' Bless him! The poor man was clearly deluded but that was quite sweet and flattering. Not OK comment - In a bar a man approached me and said ''Are those real? Me and my mate (points to mate who gives thumbs up!) were trying to decide. I said yes, he said no''. Most uncomfortable and not welcome attention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattricia Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 It depends on what and how it's said I guess. Two examples for you from my experience: OK comment - I once had a fella tell me that I was ''very pleasing to the eye!'' Bless him! The poor man was clearly deluded but that was quite sweet and flattering. Not OK comment - In a bar a man approached me and said ''Are those real? Me and my mate (points to mate who gives thumbs up!) were trying to decide. I said yes, he said no''. Most uncomfortable and not welcome attention. Someone once said " Ive got the hot dog and youve got the buns !" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Closet Guy. Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 It's human nature to sometimes find a passing stranger attractive, but is it ever OK to act on it? A recent Magazine feature about the harassment of women in the street sparked a huge response. So where is the line on acceptable behaviour? Women's groups are campaigning to stamp out what they perceive to be a widespread and unsettling habit - men making comments to them in the street. http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-12969922 I have to compliment you on this excellent and very subtle bit of trolling. Ill watch this thread with interest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BettyBooHoo! Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 Someone once said " Ive got the hot dog and youve got the buns !" We could well have been bothered by the same boob oggler there! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattricia Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 We could well have been bothered by the same boob oggler there! We have to have a smart answer back like : Man: Have we met before ? Woman: Maybe, Im the receptionist at the VD clinic ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BettyBooHoo! Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 We have to have a smart answer back like : Man: Have we met before ? Woman: Maybe, Im the receptionist at the VD clinic ! :hihi: I'll try and remember that one, altough i'll probably get it all muggled up under pressure to quote it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pattricia Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 :hihi: I'll try and remember that one, altough i'll probably get it all muggled up under pressure to quote it! If he asks you what you do for a living, tell him your a female impersonator. He will run a mile ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BettyBooHoo! Posted April 12, 2011 Share Posted April 12, 2011 If he asks you what you do for a living, tell him your a female impersonator. He will run a mile ! Hey, you're good at this! I'm making notes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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