puddinburner Posted April 16, 2011 Share Posted April 16, 2011 Bit scared actually, nothing happened yet but this bloke has been let down very gently and politely. No harsh words, just dont want a relationship with him. Anyway he's constantly phoned all day, telling me he's been drinking and is going to get a taxi up here and cause hasstle with both myself and ex partner (my kids dad) etc. Every taxi that pull's up? Can't sleep. What to do? Don't want to bother cops cos he has'nt actually done anything yet. Any advice cos in house on my own with kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest sibon Posted April 16, 2011 Share Posted April 16, 2011 Lock your doors and windows. Take your mobile phone upstairs and go to bed. Set your alarm if you have one. Get some sleep and don't let the toe rag ruin your life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Pops Posted April 16, 2011 Share Posted April 16, 2011 Lock your doors and windows. Take your mobile phone upstairs and go to bed. Set your alarm if you have one. Get some sleep and don't let the toe rag ruin your life. Good advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strix Posted April 16, 2011 Share Posted April 16, 2011 ring the police on 0114 2202020, and just let them know you've been threatened, but say you're not asking them to come haring round if you HAVE to call them later, they'll have all the details already which will save time and make sure you don't miss anything important think of your kids. it's not 'wasting police time' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mizzy Posted April 16, 2011 Share Posted April 16, 2011 Hi there, Am sorry to hear that you are feeling scared. Given that the guy in question has mentioned that he IS going to come and see you, I think it would be totally in order for you to contact the police to mention that you have been (and feel) threatened. They will perhaps have more patrols around your address tonight so that if you were to call them they again with reason then they could respond quickly. Other than that, make sure that all door and windows aare locked and that all internal doors are closed. Also make sure that the batteries in your smoke alarm work. Sorry to have to raise these points but all are sensible if you fear an intruder In your shoes I would have no further contact with this sorry excuse for a guy. Don't answer his calls or texts. he does not deserve your time xx Edit to add - Yes indeed to a fully charged mobile phone on your pillow xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puddinburner Posted April 16, 2011 Author Share Posted April 16, 2011 Thanks you lot, will phone em now cos aint going to get any sleep. 1 solid partner for 15 years, 2 lovely kids, split no-ones fault. Friends with this bloke for a little over year, he wants more, I said no. Bloody hell???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ting~Tong Posted April 16, 2011 Share Posted April 16, 2011 keep safe hun, keep lights on around house, and deffo ring cops, cant u get someone to stay with u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dunsel Posted April 16, 2011 Share Posted April 16, 2011 Puddin, deffo ring police. Take no chances, do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
olilew Posted April 16, 2011 Share Posted April 16, 2011 you tell him the split second you see or hear him you will call the police and have him arrested! this should discourage him. if he does come you must call them! they will come. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mizzy Posted April 16, 2011 Share Posted April 16, 2011 Well done for deciding to call the police. You should not be made to feel scared in your own home. I hope that you have an uneventful night and that this jerk gets the message and backs off xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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