espadrille Posted June 2, 2011 Author Share Posted June 2, 2011 Which are all admirable qualities. Are they any different though to the qualities you'd look for in any human being? Why restrict it to men? You are correct. I would look for all those qualities in any person whatever their role or relationship was to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyclone Posted June 2, 2011 Share Posted June 2, 2011 Sex. Without sex there is no reason for men & women to have anything to do with one another. That's not a quality, that's an activity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rubydazzler Posted June 2, 2011 Share Posted June 2, 2011 However, my comment was an ironic take on the shallow nature of men... You just didn't get it as you are the female nemesis of the kind of bloke I was making fun of and as such just as narrow-minded. You don't do irony very well then? I'm so glad I'm not paying you to take the creases out of my life. But I rather like the idea of being a nemesis ... never been called one of those before. *wonders if Snook actually meant that*You need to meet my fine, eccentric mother and my equally fine, indomitable girlfriend to see just why I don't have a mother fixation. However if you spent any amount of time with me and her father you might just see why I may just be a bit of a Daddy substitute!After all these years, dd, ya still don't get meh, do ya? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mecky Posted June 2, 2011 Share Posted June 2, 2011 Maybe a women that doesn't have her right hand permanently clamped to her right ear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
discodown Posted June 2, 2011 Share Posted June 2, 2011 It was a general question.I didn't set out to define whether it was about a woman who was a boss, a woman who was a girlfriend, a woman who was a lover. I was attempting to get some answers from some men about what qualities they look for in a woman. Of course each man who replies will interpret that question in a different way. If you asked me what qualities do I look for in a man, I would say Understanding A good listener Have good self esteem Be determined Reliable. Hardworking or have a keen interest in something. Those are the qualities I look for in men. Simple Really? How about your boss? So long as your boss has good self esteem and is interested in something its irrelevant if he is a good boss? That makes no sense. You're not talking about a member of the opposite sex here you're just asking for the decent qualities that defines another generic person. Their gender or role has little to do with it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MAC33 Posted June 2, 2011 Share Posted June 2, 2011 if i'm honest a shapely,very firm backside.....if i'm dishonest i'd say kind,honest,caring,sweet,pretty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manofstrad Posted June 2, 2011 Share Posted June 2, 2011 That's not a quality, that's an activity. Sex with me is quality, ask any woman in Sheffield post 80's. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Celeb Posted June 3, 2011 Share Posted June 3, 2011 That's not a quality, that's an activity. You`re obviously not a celebrity (like me) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
espadrille Posted June 3, 2011 Author Share Posted June 3, 2011 Really? How about your boss? So long as your boss has good self esteem and is interested in something its irrelevant if he is a good boss? That makes no sense. You're not talking about a member of the opposite sex here you're just asking for the decent qualities that defines another generic person. Their gender or role has little to do with it. I am my own boss. I run my own business. Why does a man assume that a woman has to have a boss. Cant see why it makes no sense. I started off asking the question to men.. what is the most important quality in a woman.I replied to Taxmans post when he asked why was I just talking about men and I agreed that I would look for those qualities in all people, but that is just my opinion about people generally. The question I originally posed was to the men as am interested in the differences and also wonder if the reason a man would be attracted to a woman is about what he sees( the physical aspect) or whether her personality and her qualities of character are more important.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyclone Posted June 3, 2011 Share Posted June 3, 2011 You`re obviously not a celebrity (like me) Would being a celebrity entail having a weak grasp of English? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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