unhappydad Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Hello, Any ladies out there fancy joining a nice genuine gent for lunch today in town? Speak soon x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missymoo73 Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Try getting to know people on here first hun. I doubt very much that someone would meet a complete stranger from here straight away. Try the chat room at night etc or join in threads and you get to know people who you can chat to etc. Good Luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SHsheff Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Maybe you could give the ladies an idea how old you are? What interests you have? What you'd like to chat about over lunch? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KTHFB Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Try getting to know people on here first hun. I doubt very much that someone would meet a complete stranger from here straight away. Try the chat room at night etc or join in threads and you get to know people who you can chat to etc. Good Luck I'd go with this advice. Try going to a Forum meet first and meet people that way? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SHsheff Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Answered my own question: Ok I’m new to all this sp please be gentle with me! You probably want to know a little about be if you’re looking here. Well I’m a 27 year old dad of two, currently not very happy, but hopefully that’ll change soon, maybe you can be the person to put a smile back on my face! As for physical looks I think I’m fairly average, short brown hair, blue eyes, average build, average weight, 5’11. What else would you like to know? Well my interests might be something you’d like to know, I like walking in the countryside, reading, eating out, going to the cinema and photography (although not enough time spent on that hobby at the moment!). I don't think it is such a daft thread, tbh. I'd say someone who thinks you sound like her kind of man might well take a flier and meet you for a quick coffee and sandwich in Starbucks (or wherever you're proposing). You could always let her have your phone number via PM so you could chat first. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speeed Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Are you paying? Im willing to wear a wig and a dress for free lunch Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
natzzz Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Are you paying? Im willing to wear a wig and a dress for free lunch You'd probably be willing to do more for a free lunch! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
speeed Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 You'd probably be willing to do more for a free lunch! Depends on where the lunch is and how pretty he is Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SHsheff Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 Hello, Any ladies out there fancy joining a nice genuine gent for lunch today in town? Speak soon x PS you might like to consider changing your username to A1BoyfriendMaterial (tho it probably wouldn't all fit in) because 'unhappydad' isn't too likely to make anyone want to rush to spend time with you (not unless they're into wallowing and self-pitying). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halibut Posted June 9, 2011 Share Posted June 9, 2011 PS you might like to consider changing your username to A1BoyfriendMaterial (tho it probably wouldn't all fit in) because 'unhappydad' isn't too likely to make anyone want to rush to spend time with you (not unless they're into wallowing and self-pitying). I fully endorse this advice. 'Unhappydad' might well put a lot of prospective suitors off - people might think that you are going to be needy, clingy and miserable. Nothing puts women (or men for hat matter) off more readily than the smell of deperation. (That's not meant to be unkind, by the way - and I'm not suggesting that you're desperate, just that others might pick up that impression.) On a more positive note, I do think it's good to be upfront about the fact that you have kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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