Blondie73 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 Thankyou,and I guess you have proved my point about the beauty beholder thing : ) They don't know I have started this thread but I was just curious about others opinions from the outside as I am bias I guess LOL!!! It is a shame when families fall out as I am in the position to realize life could be a lot lot worse and time is very precious with our loved ones. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddie_shef Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 Exactly Blondie... I have a friend who is going through the same thing (he isn't married yet though, but soon).... And I know in future he will regret it if he doesn't patch up things with his parents. And equally they will regret it if they don't sort things out with him... Both parties just need to speak to each other And make a bad situation slightly bearable... It's the only way things will ever get sorted! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shanes teeth Posted June 30, 2011 Share Posted June 30, 2011 I actually thought the bride was very attractive... But, family rifts are very hard to solve- especially from The outside. I've found that it requires both sides to make huge sacrifices... Perhaps instead of posting the torn up cheque for 100 pounds, he could have arranged a meeting with her? At the end of the day, you can't chose your family, and you can't really chose your inlaws.. So you might just need to bear with it and hope that both parties come around. Congratulations to the bride and groom anyway. OI! Pack it in-She's married! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blondie73 Posted June 30, 2011 Author Share Posted June 30, 2011 Hey guess it could of been worse!!!!Seen this doing the rounds?A future MIL email to her future daughter in law: http://uk.lifestyle.yahoo.com/family-parenting/motherinlaw%E2%80%99s-rude-email-goes-viral-blog-122-yahoo-lifestyles.html Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
auntyjo Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 his mother should have put her opinions of the bride to one side and supported him and his kids for the most important day in his life, good on him for standing his ground, as regards the comment she made to his oldest daughter it was bang out of order if he's brought her up as his own then she should always be considerd as that and good on him, i always say that it takes more of a man to be a daddy than it does to be a father, i hope he can move on and put this behind him he must have been so dissapointed that is mother couldn't support him, i hope he has many happy years together with his wife and kids even if his mother doesn't approve Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
callumby93 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 There's always one miserable one in a family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mecky Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 I missed dad's funeral because I was ill ... and that chance has gone and I will regret it forever, even if we didn't see eye to eye all the time. A valuable lesson learned. Take heed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimba Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Im with the mother on this if her argument is he could have done better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dvp82 Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Can i ask who took the photographs in the youtube slide show. Was it just random snap shots from the guest or did you pay a photographer for them pictures. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denlin Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 Im with the mother on this if her argument is he could have done better. That's not her choice. Her son can't choose who he falls in love with, they have children and have been together a long time. He's a man not a boy. His mother needs to realise that, stop trying to run his life or she is going to be a lonely, bitter old woman:roll: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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