tired mummy Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 my htb thinks i shouldn,t have any say in what wedding suit he chooses:(..I,m not happy about this and think i should have a say as i,ve got my colour scheme and i want it to match.is it normal for the groom to do this? am i being a bridezilla? lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
purple.sarah Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Well mine decided what colour he wanted his suit to be but he told me and it's ivory, which is one of our colours so that's ok. But then again they are our colours, we picked them together. I figured he should get a say since I chose my dress. Just ask him not to clash. Work together and you should be able to sort it out, communication is key. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upinwath Posted July 31, 2011 Share Posted July 31, 2011 Yes lass. I'd start putting my foot down and start telling him what to do before we were even married. He'll love that and it saves all that messing about with expensive divorce lawyers if he realises what you are before you get married.. Divorce rate I'm glad my wife and I discuss things properly before she tells me what I can do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tired mummy Posted August 1, 2011 Author Share Posted August 1, 2011 lol well he,s had 9 years to get used to me telling him what to do and still wants to marry me ,anyway we have agreed he can pick his own as long as his cravat is fushia and his waistcoat is white.so there.ll be no talk of divorce on this thread unless its yours ha ha ha ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
max Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 You're obviously not from Yorkshire; my oh insisted on a suit that I could wear afterwards. It lasted years and I more than got my money's worth out of it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tired mummy Posted August 1, 2011 Author Share Posted August 1, 2011 lol born n bred yorkshire lass,were hiring its cheaper than buying a suit,plus he,s already got a weddings/funerals suit but i,m not that tight,he,s aving a posh suit for wedding Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strix Posted August 1, 2011 Share Posted August 1, 2011 This is weird What on earth is he planning to wear? TBH, what can he actually do to upset the colour scheme (unless he's got a thing about bright green or something)? Weddings can get pretty intimidating for the male party involved, and it's easy for them to feel pushed out. If you feel that strongly about the suit, barter over the set list for the DJ or something else that's less important to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghostrider Posted August 2, 2011 Share Posted August 2, 2011 Does he get any say in your wedding dress ? If not, why should you have any say in what suit he wears.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angilaruk Posted August 2, 2011 Share Posted August 2, 2011 I have some sympathy with the OP, if my OH has his way, he'd be in a kilt and Meatloaf shirt!! No thought about all the other "gear" that needs to be worn with a kilt to make it look right LOL Angi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tired mummy Posted August 3, 2011 Author Share Posted August 3, 2011 wish ppl would read the thread ,i,ve already said he,s choose his own suit prince edward grey,i just wanted to be sure he got the correct colour( fushia) tie and hankie to match the bridal party, whats flippin wierd about that!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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