just_words Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 I've got a friend who keeps on picking fellas who are users and plain useless, generally they all sleep about cheating on her. Generally she won't really listen to me at the outset, and it's happened so many times that I don't want to say anything because it now sounds like i'm just bleating on... Have you any sound advice for her as to how she can spot a bad un, a sleaze, cheats and users? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aliceBB Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 I've got a friend who keeps on picking fellas who are users and plain useless, generally they all sleep about cheating on her. Generally she won't really listen to me at the outset, and it's happened so many times that I don't want to say anything because it now sounds like i'm just bleating on... Have you any sound advice for her as to how she can spot a bad un, a sleaze, cheats and users? Ones who scratch their bits in public. Ones who never empty the rubbish bin. Ones who never change their plans to fit in with hers. Ones who arent interested in her family or her past in the slightest. Ones who are arent interested in what she wants in bed. Ones who dont admire anyone except themselves, or don't express admiration for anyone elses acheivements Ones who are cruel to animals Ones who you could imagine joining the BNP from the things they say about immigrants Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aelfheah Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Does she have a self-esteem issue, or 'troubled childhood' sparking a need for idiotic company in such men? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agent Orange Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 I've got a friend who keeps on picking fellas who are users and plain useless, generally they all sleep about cheating on her. Generally she won't really listen to me at the outset, and it's happened so many times that I don't want to say anything because it now sounds like i'm just bleating on... Have you any sound advice for her as to how she can spot a bad un, a sleaze, cheats and users? If she won't listen to you, she certainly won't listen to us. Does this friend have a low opinion of herself? I find those who are that way inclined tend to attract those who you describe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just_words Posted August 3, 2011 Author Share Posted August 3, 2011 Two primary issues i'd say are that: 1) She waits to be chatted up. 2) It's generally in a bar or nightclub whilst drunk! But yes, she like likes 'real men', hard players... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
banjodeano Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Two primary issues i'd say are that: 1) She waits to be chatted up. 2) It's generally in a bar or nightclub whilst drunk! But yes, she like likes 'real men', hard players... Are real men the type of men that treat her with disrespect.? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just_words Posted August 3, 2011 Author Share Posted August 3, 2011 BTW, not really after judging her here, sorry if any of you are sleazy, but then again maybe you could give some advice on how she could avoid men who feel the need to put her down... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just_words Posted August 3, 2011 Author Share Posted August 3, 2011 Are real men the type of men that treat her with disrespect.? Not my words! I suppose it's that caveman thing, survival of the fittest thing, only the strong survive??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Agent Orange Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 Two primary issues i'd say are that: 1) She waits to be chatted up. 2) It's generally in a bar or nightclub whilst drunk! But yes, she like likes 'real men', hard players... In other words, she likes idiots. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
relost Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 I've got a friend who keeps on picking fellas who are users and plain useless, generally they all sleep about cheating on her. Generally she won't really listen to me at the outset, and it's happened so many times that I don't want to say anything because it now sounds like i'm just bleating on... Have you any sound advice for her as to how she can spot a bad un, a sleaze, cheats and users? She will get there. I had this "ailment" for years. Some women like the idea of being in love more. It wasn't until after 1 hurt too many, I decided to stop looking and met my current partner- whom I love dearly. I knew him as we used to work together, but I wasn't looking for a relationship. He is hard working, respectful, funny and still manages to be very much the man. One day your friend may just find that man. Or maybe she enjoys throwing herself into the relationships which aren't entirely suitable- some people see it as an advernture. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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