Lady Star Posted August 3, 2011 Share Posted August 3, 2011 I've got a friend who keeps on picking fellas who are users and plain useless, generally they all sleep about cheating on her. Generally she won't really listen to me at the outset, and it's happened so many times that I don't want to say anything because it now sounds like i'm just bleating on... Have you any sound advice for her as to how she can spot a bad un, a sleaze, cheats and users? Have you ever thought that these are the blokes she likes? Just because that sort wouldn't suit you, she likes how relationships with such men are always 'up in the air', the never knowing where they are, who they're with - the fights and the making up... She doesn't want a nice guy who is always where he says he is and shows her a bit of respect, as she probably wouldn't respect them, or find them boring... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just_words Posted August 3, 2011 Author Share Posted August 3, 2011 Have you ever thought that these are the blokes she likes? Just because that sort wouldn't suit you, she likes how relationships with such men are always 'up in the air', the never knowing where they are, who they're with - the fights and the making up... She doesn't want a nice guy who is always where he says he is and shows her a bit of respect, as she probably wouldn't respect them, or find them boring... Yes, this is true... But she's getting nowhere other than worse and further damaged. P.S. I like women because i'm a man! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Star Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 Yes, this is true... But she's getting nowhere other than worse and further damaged. P.S. I like women because i'm a man! Perhaps she doesn't see herself as damaged? Maybe when she is floods of tears after another breakup, that's all part of the thrill? Unless you just think that you are the right man for her, and she needs to stop looking for anyone else? If this is the case, just tell her! Or don't - if you are worried about that spelling an end to friendship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just_words Posted August 4, 2011 Author Share Posted August 4, 2011 I'm not interested like that, i'm a bit picky, there's as many messed up and damaged women as there are men out there. At the moment I prefer a good book, but they don't elbow me in the ribs in the morning... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cressida Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 hahaha I don't know about spotting a sleaze but I can spot a doormat, can't you introduce her to someone decent as she's letting us females down bigtime;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronthenekred Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 I like sleaze, I don't like polished and ever so proper. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aliceBB Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 Perhaps we'd better say what we think sleaze means before we get any further with the discussion! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shoesme Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 Yes, this is true... But she's getting nowhere other than worse and further damaged. P.S. I like women because i'm a man! Are you the male best friend who is secretly in love with her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just_words Posted August 4, 2011 Author Share Posted August 4, 2011 Are you the male best friend who is secretly in love with her? After reading the whole thread, is that the way it comes across to you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shoesme Posted August 4, 2011 Share Posted August 4, 2011 After reading the whole thread, is that the way it comes across to you? Not particularly, just asking is all. You just seem to care, which is good. So....do you fancy her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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