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I went out last night and bumped into a very lovely man, who I had an encounter with at the weekend, and we chatted to the late hours so he slept at my house. He tells me he never met anyone like me and he is nervous around me as I am so sophisticated. I am the same with him.

However just last week he got out of a two year relationship. There is no way we will get together. He is not ready and I do not want to be a rebound. He is the same height as me and eight years younger. I normally run a mile from guys unless they are around 5'9" and in late thirties.

 

I love my independence but I sat at the side of the bed looking at him this morning, admiring him and thinking about how much love I have to give if someone did come along. But I always meet people whose circumstances stop them from taking things further.

 

Is it me? Am I doing something wrong? Am I sending out the wrong vibes? Does God want me to be single? Maybe I am better off being single. I would do anything for someone else and is that a dangerous position to put myself in in this day and age?

 

I am 31. There is no way I will ever have the love of my life. He will be the love of my mid/ later life at most. What if I decide down the line I want children? I do not have many years left. While I would marry a man I meet tonight tomorrow morning if that is what we felt like I am not bringing children into the world with anyone until I know we are solid. And everything, just everything. It feels like I am taking this journey of life alone. I am more than comfortable in my own company and pride myself in being single so I do not know what has come over me and why I am stressing about this.

 

I met the love of my life at 35, he was not settling down material and a little younger than me :hihi:, he had a reputation with the ladies as long as your arm, he had no job and I absolutely loved him at first sight :love: I was a single mum and intended to stay that way for a while and focus on my little girl. 9 years on we are married, mortgage, another little girl who is 7 and he has a very good job. Most importantly he left his reputation along with his single life and is a fab hubby and Dad :)

 

Life is too short for regrets and too complicated for long term plans :) Enjoy what it is and see what happens, if its meant to be it will happen on it own. Good luck huni XXXX

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I met the love of my life at 35, he was not settling down material and a little younger than me :hihi:, he had a reputation with the ladies as long as your arm, he had no job and I absolutely loved him at first sight :love: I was a single mum and intended to stay that way for a while and focus on my little girl. 9 years on we are married, mortgage, another little girl who is 7 and he has a very good job. Most importantly he left his reputation along with his single life and is a fab hubby and Dad :)

 

Life is too short for regrets and too complicated for long term plans :) Enjoy what it is and see what happens, if its meant to be it will happen on it own. Good luck huni XXXX

 

Thank you so much and I am delighted you have love in your life.

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