Frank Sidney Posted October 12, 2011 Author Share Posted October 12, 2011 My bold -Yes it is and it causes all kinds of feelings of guilt, collusion and culpability in the male. This is a common myth that men must be consenting if they have an erection. It is absolute and utter nonsense and most ill informed to espouse this view. Your attitute is disgusting and frankly disturbing, it may have been your fantasy but fantasy and reality are two different things entirely. You are advocating sex with a minor which is reprehensible. As someone pointed out, if this woman looked like say Karen Matthews, then all you men would be chomping at the bit. How do you know what a 15 year old male feels like, you've never been one?.. I'm impressed that a feminist has the balls (no pun intended) to start lecturing men about erections... Okay, When I was a 15 year old male I would have been happy for every attractive 30 odd years old woman to do the same to me. Every night, until I was 16. And then I'd start counting again... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANGELFIRE1 Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 BS. You're talking total ********, try speaking to male survivors of child abuse before you trot out such utter tripe. I thought we were debating a youth of 15 having the pleasure of an older woman, where on earth does male survivors of child abuse come into the debate. I think you may have some kind of issue going on in your mind. Perhaps you ought to seek help of some kind. Regards Angel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skinz Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 How do you know what a 15 year old male feels like, you've never been one?.. I'm impressed that a feminist has the balls (no pun intended) to start lecturing men about erections... Okay, When I was a 15 year old male I would have been happy for every attractive 30 odd years old woman to do the same to me. Every night, until I was 16. And then I'd start counting again... Of course every young 15 yr old boy, or should i say most, have fantasies about older women, just as 15yr old girls have fantasies about older men. Yet you and the knuckle draggers don't seem to get that a fantasy isn't the same as physical. It's not about what the child does or doesn't want..the onus is on the adult to make the right call...unless of course the adult is still in infant fantasy mode. Please stay away from my 14yr old daughter...or anyone's 14yr old daughter with your attitude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0742Sheff Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 Its not possible for a woman to have sex with a man of any age, if he's not wanting to. Suffy may not be male but she is 100% correct in what she says. It has been acknowledged for a while now that it is possible. If a female dropped a couple of Viagra down your neck you would be standing to attention in no time at all. You might not want to, but you wouldn't have a choice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johncocker Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 My bold -Yes it is and it causes all kinds of feelings of guilt, collusion and culpability in the male. This is a common myth that men must be consenting if they have an erection. It is absolute and utter nonsense and most ill informed to espouse this view. Your attitute is disgusting and frankly disturbing, it may have been your fantasy but fantasy and reality are two different things entirely. You are advocating sex with a minor which is reprehensible. As someone pointed out, if this woman looked like say Karen Matthews, then all you men would be chomping at the bit. I think you're getting carried away a bit with your "feminist theorys" most 15 year old boys have sexual fantasys about their teachers its "normal" for gods sake!... turning a platonic student ...teacher relationship into something sexual could be something quite loving for a young boy .and as a feminist would say enpoweringi don't think he's going to suffer from it:rolleyes:the little s##t's already bragging. and I don't think she deserves prison ..the media will punish her enough. I lived in the redlight district in amsterdam for about a year ,on and off opposite half a dozen "windows" and the number of times i saw fathers bring their adolescent son's in for their first taste of sex I've lost count:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrSmith Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 Suffy may not be male but she is 100% correct in what she says. It has been acknowledged for a while now that it is possible. If a female dropped a couple of Viagra down your neck you would be standing to attention in no time at all. You might not want to, but you wouldn't have a choice. It wouldn't need Viagra, without going into too much detail a male can easily be aroused without actually wanting sex and if he’s tied to a bed there would be little he could do to prevent sex. oops that sounds like a fantasy:o Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyclone Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 I don't think he is a minor. Clearly you're wrong from a legal point of view. He's 15 and a young man. Its not possible for a woman to have sex with a man of any age, if he's not wanting to. For obvious reasons. Nobody is saying that the woman shouldn't know better, but she shouldn't be prosecuted. It'll ruin her and she'll probably go to prison. Some common sense is needed. If it was a 15 year old girl who is groomed and abused by a teacher, say, then that's different. If the lad in question had been forced by a male, or female, then that's abuse. The lad is just lucky. If any man reading this who wouldn't have been happy to have sex with an attractive older woman when they were fifteen, then they are either gay, liars or a pillock... So men who have sex with 15 year old girls without abusing a position of power should be okay as well then. Which boils down to you not agreeing with the age of consent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Sidney Posted October 13, 2011 Author Share Posted October 13, 2011 Of course every young 15 yr old boy, or should i say most, have fantasies about older women, just as 15yr old girls have fantasies about older men. Yet you and the knuckle draggers don't seem to get that a fantasy isn't the same as physical. It's not about what the child does or doesn't want..the onus is on the adult to make the right call...unless of course the adult is still in infant fantasy mode. Please stay away from my 14yr old daughter...or anyone's 14yr old daughter with your attitude. Why have we changed from a 15 year old boy who is willing to a 14 yr old girl who is unwilling. I am not supporting child abuse and to suggest so is a little harsh. I'm saying in these circumstances, looking at all the details we have, a prosecution will serve no purpose. The boy has suffered no harm and a warning to the woman would be sufficient. I take offence at being called a Knuckle Dragger by the way. I have a second class hons degree.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Sidney Posted October 13, 2011 Author Share Posted October 13, 2011 Clearly you're wrong from a legal point of view. So men who have sex with 15 year old girls without abusing a position of power should be okay as well then. Which boils down to you not agreeing with the age of consent. I've maintained that a prosecution is harsh and to defend the woman is difficult... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Sidney Posted October 13, 2011 Author Share Posted October 13, 2011 Suffy may not be male but she is 100% correct in what she says. It has been acknowledged for a while now that it is possible. If a female dropped a couple of Viagra down your neck you would be standing to attention in no time at all. You might not want to, but you wouldn't have a choice. Well you and suffy are wrong. Viagra works by tightening a vein in the penis, which can become slack with age or other medical problems. When an erection is wanted these knackerd veins cant contract. Thus blood can't swell the penis. In order for the blood to flow to the penis the brain has to order this by being sexually aroused.. So in conclusion. An erection can't happen unless the male is aroused, no matter how many viagra are taken. Somebody told me all this, by the way... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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