cressida Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 Has this person got parents or relatives he or she can go to, you need to get help to get rid of this situation, cut your losses so you can move on with your life Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sufcwraggy72 Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 Kick them out,think bout urself.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irenewilde Posted January 15, 2012 Share Posted January 15, 2012 Have you got someone who could be with you while you tell this person that they have x number of days to get out of your house? It might give you a bit more confidence. Other than that, changing the locks might be an option. Are you worried that they will harm you if you insist they leave? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna B Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 The other person sounds very needy and scared. They will not be able to move on without help, (and I don't mean a foot up the backside.) So I suggest you be proactive and help them move to new place. Give them a definate date to move out by, help them pack and organise, arrange transport and help support them until they get settled. If they refuse or get nasty get (bigger) friends to help, or even the police. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sierra Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Some people are emotional black holes. They will suck you into their drama and somehow, their problems always become your problems. Unfortunately, they live with you so it's not a question of just blocking their calls and mysteriously being unavailable. Get them out of your space by any means possible and then cut off contact until such time as YOU feel like being around them again. Be strong. I've no doubt they'll use every dirty trick in the book to try and guilt you into letting them stay, but stick to your guns. You being unable to relax in your own home is crazy. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joiner andy Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Change the fricken locks, block the guys telephone number and take some English lessons. Simple, all your problems solved. i could change those locks! feel free to call for a quote:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cryptic1 Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 are drugs involved? I have come across quite a few girls who latch on to caring men and have taken them for every penny, even their home. Then they move on without a care in the world. Whatever the problem you need to speak with their advisor/probation officer etc. They will have the power to arrange a flat for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hard2miss Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Kick the sponging bitch out and any of her cronies that have took your kindness as a weakness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Total Chaos Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Kick them out,if it is making you ill now,it will only get more serious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sccsux Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Some people are emotional black holes. They will suck you into their drama and somehow, their problems always become your problems. Unfortunately, they live with you so it's not a question of just blocking their calls and mysteriously being unavailable. Get them out of your space by any means possible and then cut off contact until such time as YOU feel like being around them again. Be strong. I've no doubt they'll use every dirty trick in the book to try and guilt you into letting them stay, but stick to your guns. You being unable to relax in your own home is crazy. Good luck. The only post that the OP needs to read. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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