Sierra Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 The only post that the OP needs to read. REALLY?!! You think so? There were some other good ones. Changing the locks. cressida had some good advice, too. I had a friend like this. She wasn't a bad person, but she was going through a bad patch. I bent over backwards to help to the point that her child lived with us for more than a year when there was no reason for her to be. I finally realized that I was doing more harm than good by enabling her. The little girl went to her grandmother's and I did cut off contact until she got that worthless man out of her life and got help for her substance abuse problem. We're still friends today, but at the time, she made me feel like a pos for not helping her continue her self destructive behavior. PS. I'm sorry I told you to shove it the other day. Are we cool now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denlin Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 I'm curious. Why type @ instead of "at". Either way, you still have to press two keys. No you don't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muldoon Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 Either the OP is a very slow reader/typist or, DEN-DEN-DEN ! its troll time again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sccsux Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 REALLY?!! You think so? Yes, really. Changing the locks. cressida had some good advice, too. Sounds like the person the OP mentions doesn't leave the house though, so there would be no time to organise lock changing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cryptic1 Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 and you have to consider that the op will most likely have been getting paid in kind. He gets to have a girlfriend in return for accommodation. So who is exactly using who is a question that must be considered. I know one man who became a homeless alcoholic because of this situation, but as soon as he got sorted out he went into the same situation with another girl, and this one moved her "cousin" in, who was actually her boyfriend. She even faked pregnancy for 13 months to keep a roof over her head. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spider1 Posted January 17, 2012 Share Posted January 17, 2012 Kick them to the curb! You are not the man for the job seems as if you cant sort yourself out no mind any body else do yurself a favour and do a runner Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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