cutie23 Posted February 14, 2012 Author Share Posted February 14, 2012 You're over thinking it. If you sleep with a friend you might lose them as a friend (you will if they aren't in your main circle of friends ) as and when it goes pear shaped. So either take a chance and be prepared for the fallout or sleep around. But from your last post you don't just want sex you want the intamacy which sounds like a proper relationship. Your average student would think so. Sex between friends with benefits is more recurring and affectionate than that of a one-night stand. And I feel it offers the advantages of caring friendship and sexual enjoyment without the emotional turmoil and commitment associated with romantic love. Or could I be wrong as I have never tested the water! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spooky3 Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Sex between friends with benefits is more recurring and affectionate than that of a one-night stand. And I feel it offers the advantages of caring friendship and sexual enjoyment without the emotional turmoil and commitment associated with romantic love Very true! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutie23 Posted February 14, 2012 Author Share Posted February 14, 2012 Very true! Glad you agree! Is sex without love possible esp for a woman? Because sex is more than just a physical act of pleasure. It strips us, if just for a moment, of all of our social masks, and bares our physical desires (and some might argue, our souls) to the other person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronthenekred Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Glad you agree! Is sex without love possible esp for a woman? Of course it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spooky3 Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Glad you agree! Is sex without love possible esp for a woman? Oh yes... Nothing better than love making, but sex is very possible, but if you take it as it is love making then there's no difference. If I meet someone I have feelings for them, but that doesn't mean I have to have a binding relationship even though I could easily say I love you to them. When you say "esp for a woman", evolved into women's ethos is reproduction and protection, but if you're clear with yourself that this isn't what you want out of this encounter, then... Doesn't mean you can't enjoy the feelings that go with sex, you just got to be in control of your feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spooky3 Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Glad you agree! Is sex without love possible esp for a woman? Because sex is more than just a physical act of pleasure. It strips us, if just for a moment, of all of our social masks, and bares our physical desires (and some might argue, our souls) to the other person. It's intimate yes, but that's part of the sensation. A lot of relationships fail because they get too close and lose that spark... experiment, dare, tease and have fun... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mort Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 keep it on topic please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spooky3 Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Have you seen the film? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damien666 Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Just whatever you do DO IT CAREFULLY!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cgksheff Posted February 14, 2012 Share Posted February 14, 2012 Despite the best laid plans etc. ...... the joyful act of sex releases those nasty little chemicals into your brains which turn them into mush. Then watch out! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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