adyfife Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 am i over reacting, my daughter, who is only just fourteen,(5 days ago) joined the explorers 3 wks ago and has just got back from a 3 day trip to some converted barns in huddersfield. she telled me theres a 17 yr old boy who is now her boyfriend, obviousley ive explained he is to old for her and on further questioning have found out that he has been under the covers with her and been kissing her, also during a game of ''true,dare,kiss, or promise he was trying to get her to do a lap dance, needless to say she is no longer going to the explorers, but should i let the police know, is this a type of grooming, what if hes like this with all the young girls, and what happens when he gets to 18 and is doin it,,, help with opinions please Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crosser Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 tricky one.... When I was 17.......... well you can guess the rest, but the world has changed since then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adyfife Posted February 19, 2012 Author Share Posted February 19, 2012 tricky one.... When I was 17.......... well you can guess the rest, but the world has changed since then. yea but at 17 it wouldnt have entered my head to try to get with a 14yr old Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shorty558 Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 i'm a bit concerned...which explorers is she at if you don't mind me asking...inbox me if you'd rather. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joanne5600 Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 id discuss iy with the leaders Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheffgrow Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 am i over reacting, my daughter, who is only just fourteen,(5 days ago) joined the explorers 3 wks ago and has just got back from a 3 day trip to some converted barns in huddersfield. she telled me theres a 17 yr old boy who is now her boyfriend, obviousley ive explained he is to old for her and on further questioning have found out that he has been under the covers with her and been kissing her, also during a game of ''true,dare,kiss, or promise he was trying to get her to do a lap dance, needless to say she is no longer going to the explorers, but should i let the police know, is this a type of grooming, what if hes like this with all the young girls, and what happens when he gets to 18 and is doin it,,, help with opinions please perhaps you should tell your daughter not to kiss people she doesnt know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WallBuilder Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 Might be a good idea to inform the groups leaders as they obviously aren't doing a very good job of looking after the kidds if he could of been in the same sleeping area as the girls. At least then hopefully he wont be allowed to be in a similar position in the future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adyfife Posted February 19, 2012 Author Share Posted February 19, 2012 perhaps you should tell your daughter not to kiss people she doesnt know yes, i have but she's seen him at the explorers for the last 3 weeks as well as others, having a laugh and doing whatever explorers do, then gone on a trip with them which i believed all the kids to be of the same age, early teens, not late teens, and i didnt know they would be sleeping under the same roof unsupervised on the trip, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skirmisher Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 Did your daughter tell him how young she actually was? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sheffgrow Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 yes, i have but she's seen him at the explorers for the last 3 weeks as well as others, having a laugh and doing whatever explorers do, then gone on a trip with them which i believed all the kids to be of the same age, early teens, not late teens, and i didnt know they would be sleeping under the same roof unsupervised on the trip, and i would be annoyed too as males and females shouldnt be sleeping in the same rooms, However your daughter has kissed this boy and got under the covers with him, did she protest? did she inform staff members? was she under duress? you need to teach her for her own safety what is and isnt acceptable Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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