just-me-here Posted March 1, 2012 Share Posted March 1, 2012 Hi all, I like a girl who works in a coffee shop but I am a bit shy and I don't want to be rejected by her. Do you guys have any advice in such situations? What should I say to her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XXTickerXX Posted March 1, 2012 Share Posted March 1, 2012 Tell her you are a dyslexic Mexican and to get her taco. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allen Posted March 1, 2012 Share Posted March 1, 2012 PMSL.......... Not sure this will help. My Dad's first chat up line to my Mum was.....I like them socks. (She was wearing white ankle socks) They were married for 50 plus years. Let us know how you get on, lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheesemaster Posted March 1, 2012 Share Posted March 1, 2012 Ask to buy her a coffee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just-me-here Posted March 1, 2012 Author Share Posted March 1, 2012 Ask to buy her a coffee In her cafe. That would be funny. Wouldn't it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hard2miss Posted March 1, 2012 Share Posted March 1, 2012 Ask to buy her a coffee Ask her to buy you a coffee would be better, then say something like 'I would have offered you one but I'm a man of the times' A bit of cheek often helps break the ice and overcome nerves. Rejection wound't be as bad if you are a little cheeky with it And she may like you being different and have a laugh about it which is always a good start. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cgmw Posted March 1, 2012 Share Posted March 1, 2012 Its definitely worth saying something, what's the worst that could happen.....a dented pride and the inconvenience of finding another coffee shop if you can't handle going back in there? What to say.....that's the question........ I would personally try and strike up conversation with her whenever you go in, and over time you would get to know a little more about her which will make it a lot easier for you to take it up a notch and brave the big.......'Would you like to go for a drink sometime?' Let me know how things progress! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
just-me-here Posted March 1, 2012 Author Share Posted March 1, 2012 Its definitely worth saying something, what's the worst that could happen.....a dented pride and the inconvenience of finding another coffee shop if you can't handle going back in there? What to say.....that's the question........ I would personally try and strike up conversation with her whenever you go in, and over time you would get to know a little more about her which will make it a lot easier for you to take it up a notch and brave the big.......'Would you like to go for a drink sometime?' Let me know how things progress! 'Would you like to go for a drink sometime?' idea is better than my friend's one 'Give her a good tip'. Also, inviting a girl to a drink or a dinner proved successful in the past. Will try tomorrow. Wish me luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cgmw Posted March 1, 2012 Share Posted March 1, 2012 'Would you like to go for a drink sometime?' idea is better than my friend's one 'Give her a good tip'. Also, inviting a girl to a drink or a dinner proved successful in the past. Will try tomorrow. Wish me luck. Best of luck! I have faith in you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Christina1 Posted March 1, 2012 Share Posted March 1, 2012 First, hang out in this coffee bar frequently and then let her notice you. Then invite her to have a cup of coffee with you together. then just tell her your true feeling. Do not be shy. Just have a try. May she will accept you. Be brave! Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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