angel22 Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 Glad things seem to be looking up for him (and you) fabcakes. I hope he carries on as he is! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fabcakes Posted November 26, 2012 Author Share Posted November 26, 2012 Hi Fabcakes. Good to hear your son seems to have got his act together and things are looking up for you all. It sounds like your bit of "tough love" worked. Hope things continue to improve for you, your son and the rest of the family. it all just come to a head when we asked him to stay away he came dawn with his girlfriend & her mum thinking i wouldn't say anything because someone was here.......he was so very wrong i had months worth of pented up anger with him & he chose the wrong time to test it i didn't feel good after he left i had a good cry & felt bad because it was the 1st time i had met his girlfriend's mother so not the best time but that's me my timing stinks but it did the job & his girlfriends mum came dawn later with his girlfreaind minus my son just to say she understood where i was coming from witch made me feel so much better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laineyiow Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 Maybe it was the fact that your son's girlfriend and mum were there that gave you the confidence to speak your mind. It may just have been the boost you needed and it obviously was the right time as it seems to have worked. Hopefully things will now go from strength to strength for you and the family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fabcakes Posted November 26, 2012 Author Share Posted November 26, 2012 lets hope so eh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
horribleblob Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 That's good news, fabcakes. It sounds like you played it just right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna B Posted November 26, 2012 Share Posted November 26, 2012 Oh darling I'm so glad things have improved, and you're through the worst. I also wish your son the best of luck with his new improved life. Thankyou so much for taking the time and trouble to let us know what's happened. You have also helped others who are are going through it, by showing that there is always hope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poppins Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 Oh darling I'm so glad things have improved, and you're through the worst. I also wish your son the best of luck with his new improved life. Thankyou so much for taking the time and trouble to let us know what's happened. You have also helped others who are are going through it, by showing that there is always hope. Anna, what a nice post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fabcakes Posted November 27, 2012 Author Share Posted November 27, 2012 Oh darling I'm so glad things have improved, and you're through the worst. I also wish your son the best of luck with his new improved life. Thankyou so much for taking the time and trouble to let us know what's happened. You have also helped others who are are going through it, by showing that there is always hope. believe me i never thought he would change but he has & he knows he's got a long way to go but its like i say baby steps & that's what ive told him i can look forward to a good Christmas this year as last year was very tense so tense you wouldn't believe all he keeps saying is you'll like your present mum but i have told him just having him back to who he is is a present enough for me but i'm looking forward to having a proper present from him this year it could be a wooden spoon that he's bought i don't care its not bought with drug money & i am very proud of him & what he has done because i know its a big thing to stop doing it & i respect him for that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Halibut Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 Tough love. You love your lad, but you need, for your own sake and for the rest of your families sake to change the locks and tell him he isn't welcome in your home till he's clean. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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