Suffragette1 Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 We don't often agree of late dazzler, but you're spot on here. Attractive people of either sex have choices (and distractions), probably too many which makes them reluctant to compromise unless they bond with someone from an early age and grow together. In my second life (post divorce) I've sometimes punched above my weight and encountered some wonderful, talented women-the superficially beautiful ones are easily distracted creatures though and prone to the Grass is Greener syndrome, the grass may well be greener but they often aren't committed to resolving differences and making relationships work before they're seeking newer pastures or are tempted by the more dashing bull in the field. I suspect that most people, beautiful or otherwise, are prone to 'Grass is Greener syndrome', it's just that in theory, the more attractive people will get more opportunities. However, it is a bit of a myth that really stunning women have far more choices. Most of the seriously beautfiul women whom I know have always had problems attracting men for the reasons that I have already outlined. Most will look and admire but consider them to be unattainable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 It is part of british culture to be withdrawn and only half half get into explosive passionate moments where animalistic insanity takes over and you get realy hot and excited. If someone does know how to let go of control and does realy go for it they cannot call themselves british anylonger. Because they have grown beyond and surpassed their cultural expectations. many many pretty women in sheffield live single and are scared of doing anything outrageous. Even a little adventure just to see whats up and stay in shape is out of the question. No such thing as a naked sauna or nudity resourts in south yorkshire, if there are any they are not welknown. An english women needs to get drunk and take pils to get to the point where cultural control loses grip and she can jump in bed with someone she only met last month. On the continent people are comfertable to do it same day of meeting if that is neccesary, without any cultural difficulty or embarresment. You have to start the engine to drive the car. if you dont like the way it drives you get another one. My bold - really? And does this apply to the male of the species too? Or perhaps you've watched too much porn and other films and are expecting The Postman Always Rings Twice type kitchen table sex or Body Heat let's smash a door down and have rampant ripping off one another's clothes hall sex? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janie48 Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 England is the most sexually repressed country I have ever been. I have been in bed with over 100 women from different cultures. English women are like frozen icecubes and are scared of getting real exited, hot, energetic. They hold it all back and are scared to really go for it. This is not to interpreted negatively, due to this repression british music has been better and more sexual than that of other cultures. Nudity and talking about intimate matters is normal in other cultures while here it is not appreciated. Last meeting with an english women getting intimate she did not even start breathing or show excitement when things were getting hot. I left and later she said she was really excited, can't believe it. Weirdo's I am not going to have it with an icecube. Its a shame you were so dissapointed with the last one. Next time try paying a bit more,you might get your money's worth then and be happier with the performance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boyfriday Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 Most of the seriously beautfiul women whom I know have always had problems attracting men for the reasons that I have already outlined. I notice you've not been compelled to direct any of them my way-is it cuz I iz blick? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 I notice you've not been compelled to direct any of them my way-is it cuz I iz blick? I couldn't cope with the PTSD that I would have to deal with afterwards! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shaznay Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 A lot of men would be intimidated by the type of woman described by the OP. totally agree with you Suffy....intimidating and high maintenance is what springs to mind if they are on dating sites then I pressume they are just attention seekers with no intention of seeking a life time partner... been on these sites and never come across a genuine person on them ... 'players' was the word used a lot to describe them good luck to them if that is what they want Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boyfriday Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 I couldn't cope with the PTSD that I would have to deal with afterwards! Platitudes, Thanks and Sincere Delight? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 totally agree with you Suffy....intimidating and high maintenance is what springs to mind if they are on dating sites then I pressume they are just attention seekers with no intention of seeking a life time partner... been on these sites and never come across a genuine person on them ... 'players' was the word used a lot to describe them good luck to them if that is what they want Something that I have noticed is how some men marry rather plain women yet continually chase real stunners. I think that this may be another issue that really gorgeous women have to contend with. A lot of men would be too wary to shack up with someone drop dead gorgeous as they're concerned that she would have more opportunities to stray. So they marry someone who is unlikely to get many propositions and will, therefore, remain faithful, whilst they themselves lust after and pursue really good looking women. Text book stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boyfriday Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 if they are on dating sites then I pressume they are just attention seekers with no intention of seeking a life time partner...Are you talking about men or women shaznay (or both)? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted May 15, 2012 Share Posted May 15, 2012 Are you talking about men or women shaznay (or both)? I have no experience of dating sites, however, I would imagine that most women on there are genuinely looking for a relationship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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