Waldo Posted June 10, 2012 Share Posted June 10, 2012 My advice is to stop asking other people for advice, and just do whatever it is that you want and feel is right for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kerrangaroo Posted June 10, 2012 Share Posted June 10, 2012 My advice is to stop asking other people for advice, and just do whatever it is that you want and feel is right for you. They should make this advice a 'sticky' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghozer Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 tracked down on Facebook, read what you're up to, got in touch.. not that difficult... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kerrangaroo Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 tracked down on Facebook, read what you're up to, got in touch.. not that difficult... I don't think people understand or even realise how much information they are giving away and to whom and to how many. A quick browse through previous posts reveals a great deal about forummers and is a tool that many make use of. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Waldo Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 They should make this advice a 'sticky' Yeah, perhaps it's applicable to most threads asking for advice. I guess we all do it, from time to time; we want to know what other people think, or how they would act, given the situation we find ourselves in. Why are we so eager to defer to other peoples' experience and opinion? Whatever happened to self-trust and following our own gut-instinct? Is it not better to act from oneself, and risk making mistakes (and learning from them); rather than constantly deferring to other people? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kerrangaroo Posted June 11, 2012 Share Posted June 11, 2012 Yeah, perhaps it's applicable to most threads asking for advice. I guess we all do it, from time to time; we want to know what other people think, or how they would act, given the situation we find ourselves in. Why are we so eager to defer to other peoples' experience and opinion? Whatever happened to self-trust and following our own gut-instinct? Is it not better to act from oneself, and risk making mistakes (and learning from them); rather than constantly deferring to other people? Don't know. I tend to go it alone and i've made some right ****-ups hahaha BUT i'm better for it i'd say. I think for some stuff you really need to be sorting it yourself, no way would I enlist the help of forums for personal matters, it's there forever for all to see and may even backfire on you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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