rubydazzler Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 it takes two to tango darlin Exactly, which is my whole point. If he didn't want to put a ring on one thing, he should have put a rubber on the other thing. His girlfriend was obviously happy to take the chance ... he should have taken his own precautions and saved himself all this drama Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeMaquis Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 .....i think its going to end like a episode of jermy Kyle. Too late. It's already turned into that on here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikki-red Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 Everyones presuming the OP is really young, but he started a thread about his 21 year old son last year!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strix Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 Everyones presuming the OP is really young, but he started a thread about his 21 year old son last year!!it's the childish behaviour of the girlfriend that's leading to that idea... so maybe SHE IS young (but you're right, jumping to conclusions is what SF does best) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rothschild Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 Amazingly enough, 87 year olds are fairly well versed and experienced in the ways of the world. I hardly think that announcing a pregnancy will be earth shattering to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kidley Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 some thing to me does not add up, if he did the deed when his x was not his x wouldn't she be on the pill, i will go no further Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oldtrout Posted July 11, 2012 Share Posted July 11, 2012 Exactly, which is my whole point. If he didn't want to put a ring on one thing, he should have put a rubber on the other thing. His girlfriend was obviously happy to take the chance ... he should have taken his own precautions and saved himself all this drama Excellent comment! The ex sounds very disgruntled about something, trying to be nasty by threatening anything to cause hurt. How long has she been an ex? I presume she has done a pregnancy test and not just assumed she's pregnant because she missed a period. Tell your grandparents the first chance you get, and warn them that she is trying to be hurtful. Tell them not to react adversely to her if she does call and see them. Sit down with her and talk about the pregnancy. You must keep very calm, do not criticise her or 'throw' comments at her. This is a serious issue so make her feel that you are going to do everything you can to help. Offer to go along to all scans, checks etc and do so, as far as you possibly can. See what happens! The problem with people who escalate things to the Jeremy Kyle show is that they show no empathy for the other person. They just don't listen to each other and prefer to think of 'me, me, me'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mummytwo Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 I can't believe it hasn't been said yet but congratulations on having a new baby on the way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rupert_Baehr Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Everyones presuming the OP is really young, but he started a thread about his 21 year old son last year!! Nice spot! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NorthernStar Posted July 12, 2012 Share Posted July 12, 2012 Considering pinkygreen's seemly decent and reasonably attitude towards the situation that he and his ex have found themselves, it seems his ex is behaving in a somewhat desperate and downright unreasonable way, this would make me very suspicious indeed. Oldtrout is speaking a great deal of sense that I would be tempted to go along with but I'm afraid that if this happened to me I would want DNA evidence that the child was not a cuckoo so to speak. Exactly how you would get the DNA evidence without mortally offending the ex is quite another matter but her actions would be ringing all my alarm bells. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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