Suffragette1 Posted July 24, 2012 Share Posted July 24, 2012 I agree with Mrs Grissom, tempting though it is, an affair is not the solution if you're confused about your feelings already. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Un Suited Posted July 24, 2012 Share Posted July 24, 2012 You should ask the secret lover to look after your mother for a while. This will give everyone a breather. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J's Mum Posted July 24, 2012 Author Share Posted July 24, 2012 I haven't got a secret lover lol, he's a guy whos shown interest, nothing has happened between us. I don't want to hurt my hubby but I don't know if I can carry on like this, he has his faults just like me but it's me who doesn't want it not him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suffragette1 Posted July 24, 2012 Share Posted July 24, 2012 What made you get married after so long together? And do either of you want children? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J's Mum Posted July 25, 2012 Author Share Posted July 25, 2012 We split up and got back together and hen decided that we were going to get married, I wanted a child but he didn't, we did agree to try for 12 months which we did, after the year I decided that I didn't want to keep trying. We had to have fertility treatment to get pregnant but it wasn't working. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J's Mum Posted July 25, 2012 Author Share Posted July 25, 2012 Ive come to a decision that im going to sit down with hubby and explain how i feel and that i dont want to give up and regret doing so but i also cant keep hurting him with not knowing whats happening. Im going to see how the next couple of weeks go and if i still feel the same then im going to make the break, that way we both have a chance at a fresh start. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janie48 Posted July 25, 2012 Share Posted July 25, 2012 Yes it might be a good idea to talk it over with him first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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