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Amanda Todd's suicide, bullying & cyberbullying. Is your kid a bully?


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A tragic case of internet stalking, paedophilia, smear campaigns, blackmail, bullying, physical violence and as a result, suicide.

 

On September 7th Amanda Todd, from Vancouver, posted a video on Youtube. It was a silent video telling her story through a series of hand-written notes.

The video is

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On October 10th (last Wednesday) she was found hanged, she died aged 15.

 

 

It all started when she received flattering compliments online at 12 years old, she naively raised her top to a stranger online, at his request. Her Nightmare began from there. Over the next 3 years she moved schools several times, each time her online stalker managed to infiltrate her new circle of friends and turn them all against her. In the end it was just too much.

 

To understand more you'll have to watch her video, it's nearly 9 minutes long but if you are going to watch it, please do read every note card she holds up.

 

I was appalled (but possibly not surprised) that many Youtube users have made nasty comments about her. I know this won't happen here, on our/my beloved Sheffield Forum

 

 

Bullying is a worry for all parents. Cyberbullying and online predators are an additional and more recent worry. I worry that my child may become a victim one day. Most parents have the same concerns.

 

I also hope that my child never becomes a bully.

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it just shows how much the new generation thinks that fitting in is the only thing that matters. its heart breaking, and why if the parents knew the full details, didnt they intervene in some way. surly thats what parents are for, guidance in difficult times.

a teenager now matter how mature needs the love and protection of them.

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Rootsbooster, I have just watched the video & read all the cards, that poor young lass what she must have endured in her short life. As you read it, it seems she was trying to meet new friend's but was easily led & then dumped on from a great height.

 

Such a tragic waste that people use other people for self gratification, then dump them; its awful and she paid the ultimate price.

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Have just read this and is very sad indeed and what can one say really

 

very sick individuals out there which ive always known

 

Its sad how the School she was bullied never done nothing and Schools

 

dont tend to do enough i feel , often also kids wont tell parents

in this case she well may have felt too embarrassed

very sad she could not have anyone person to tell

 

Ive personally always hated bullies and always shall do

was bullied at School one time also and had a cigarette but

pressed into the back of my hand by this big heavy guy whom was one of the School bullies

i was a new lad at school and fights i got into with the odd bully

as one can only take so much , you have to stand up to them

when theyre on their own is best

as theyre big with their friends beside them

as was always the case i found bullies always with a gang

 

Ye this story is so sad and her parents are bound to feel such for sure

just a pity they never picked up on their daughters feelings

and these predators like that animal saying such and only after one thing

and not friendship, should be hauled before a court

and it should not matter about his age whatever age for such is evil

and should be a long time behind bars with being bullied himself

 

Ive normally believed in an eye for an eye in life

although now i live life with the thinking of what comes around goes around ?

 

But very sad story indeed , the crowd of Bullies should all be brought

to justice and i mean also the ones whom like to watch

Evil rats the lotta them , just a pity the young lass

never it seems had anyone to talk to and tell

shes been to embarassed to tell her parents regards the flashing

 

but one person at that School at least shouldve went forward

to tell about the bullying

 

That guy doing and saying such just to have sex with a

young underage girl whom only was wanting friendship

he is the lowest of the low and should be brought to justice

Very sad story ..

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Its terrible but I imagine some on here would class what they did to her as "free speech".

 

There is no excuses for any person like that guy doing and saying such

only to win her confidence to abuse the lass it seems and then after such

downing the lass to others whom wickedly also went against her

 

they are just as bad i reckon, and they all should be brought to justice

with that guy especially being jailed and for a long time

 

should certainly not get away with such

 

RIP to the wee girl ..but as sais they should be hounded for such

bullies should have no place in society and that guy is an evil

we shi-bag whom should be exposed ..

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it just shows how much the new generation thinks that fitting in is the only thing that matters. its heart breaking, and why if the parents knew the full details, didnt they intervene in some way. surly thats what parents are for, guidance in difficult times.

a teenager now matter how mature needs the love and protection of them.

Have just read this and is very sad indeed and what can one say really

 

very sick individuals out there which ive always known

 

Its sad how the School she was bullied never done nothing and Schools

 

dont tend to do enough i feel , often also kids wont tell parents

in this case she well may have felt too embarrassed

very sad she could not have anyone person to tell

 

Ive personally always hated bullies and always shall do

was bullied at School one time also and had a cigarette but

pressed into the back of my hand by this big heavy guy whom was one of the School bullies

i was a new lad at school and fights i got into with the odd bully

as one can only take so much , you have to stand up to them

when theyre on their own is best

as theyre big with their friends beside them

as was always the case i found bullies always with a gang

 

Ye this story is so sad and her parents are bound to feel such for sure

just a pity they never picked up on their daughters feelings

and these predators like that animal saying such and only after one thing

and not friendship, should be hauled before a court

and it should not matter about his age whatever age for such is evil

and should be a long time behind bars with being bullied himself

 

Ive normally believed in an eye for an eye in life

although now i live life with the thinking of what comes around goes around ?

 

But very sad story indeed , the crowd of Bullies should all be brought

to justice and i mean also the ones whom like to watch

Evil rats the lotta them , just a pity the young lass

never it seems had anyone to talk to and tell

shes been to embarassed to tell her parents regards the flashing

 

but one person at that School at least shouldve went forward

to tell about the bullying

 

That guy doing and saying such just to have sex with a

young underage girl whom only was wanting friendship

he is the lowest of the low and should be brought to justice

Very sad story ..

As far as I'm aware, it was well known, she even moved schools several times. It leads me to think (about Amanda's case and past cases from experience) in some cases what can a parent do? How can you stop bullying, especially online?

Its terrible but I imagine some on here would class what they did to her as "free speech".

I don't think they would.

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