Sid Umpley Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 Denmonte point her to this thread. it may shock her a little. i would be so embaraced if i was in my 20's and had to ask my mum to pay for a holiday. in fact my mum would have prob just laughed at me and told me to either save more or forget the trip. at the moment she has everything she wants. warm, comphy safe, cheap, bank of mum and dad on tap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denmonte Posted January 15, 2013 Author Share Posted January 15, 2013 Denmonte point her to this thread. it may shock her a little. i would be so embaraced if i was in my 20's and had to ask my mum to pay for a holiday. in fact my mum would have prob just laughed at me and told me to either save more or forget the trip. at the moment she has everything she wants. warm, comphy safe, cheap, bank of mum and dad on tap. I would never show her this thread. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris_Sleeps Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 at the moment she has everything she wants. warm, comphy safe, cheap, bank of mum and dad on tap. I know someone who has moved two doors up from their parents and is exactly the same. Her Dad walks up the road with a cup of tea for her and carries clothes back to be ironed. No lie. It isn't living under the same roof that is at fault. It's the attitude and relationship that is broken. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACEBOOK Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 It's quite simple, if a child grows up without the means to be independent, then that is the fault of the parents. So if they are still at home in their mid 20's+ with no job prospects or the means to go it alone, that is the parents fault and they should be made to house the child whom they have failed so badly in life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sid Umpley Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 I would never show her this thread. why not? would you be embarrassed your discussing this with strangers or would she be embaraced you felt you had to? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACEBOOK Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 why not? would you be embaraced your discussing this with strangers or would she be embaraced you felt you had to? Stop spelling embarrassed wrong, you're setting a bad example to the yoof! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denmonte Posted January 15, 2013 Author Share Posted January 15, 2013 Sometimes it is easier to talk to strangers anonymously than to people that you know, especially with delicate issues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
epiphany Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 I think most "kids" want to move out when they realise they want the freedom to invite back a mate for a passionate and noisy night/morning of edgy sex, without feeling like you're disrespecting the house rules. 19 for me. Not because of the sex though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denmonte Posted January 15, 2013 Author Share Posted January 15, 2013 I think most "kids" want to move out when they realise they want the freedom to invite back a mate for a passionate and noisy night/morning of edgy sex, without feeling like you're disrespecting the house rules. 19 for me. Not because of the sex though. Why was it then? Why did you feel the need to move ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sid Umpley Posted January 15, 2013 Share Posted January 15, 2013 in my case i had decided i was an adult. i had a chat with my mum and dad who told me to be certain, as once i left they would be there to support me, but not to smother me anymore. i moved out about a week later and in the 28 yrs since i havent asked them for a thing. my mum calls me every week or so, asks how life is etc. i moved into a small flat then a house with my 1st wife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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