AJ-Recovery Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 As my mum always says they have to sleep sometime nobody deserves to be bullied, bullying can be verbal and physical. get advice from the police, cab or whoever and leave him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrs patching Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Why is everyone solution always to involve others to sort your problems out for you? Stop trolling , its pathetic. Don't bother to comment on this thread it's not a joking matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stressconsul Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Ring the domestic abuse helpline: 0808 808 2241. If he is hurting you he is unlikely to stop and things may well get worse. Make plans to leave now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stegwah Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 genuinely wasnt a troll. like i said before, has she tried talking to them? why involve others straight away. Easy solution and the problem with today, its always up to someone else to solve your problems etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joanne b Posted January 24, 2013 Author Share Posted January 24, 2013 Its his house,so cant kick him out..dont know what was worse the violence which stopped or the mental torture! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stegwah Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 how long have you been with him? i used to live next door to a man who beat his wife. rang the police many times and went round aswell. In the end she never left him. Is he approachable? could you sit and talk about it with him? if not i suggest you pack up and leave. rent somewhere cheap and cut all contact with him. its for the best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curriechick Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Are there times when you are not with him, say during the day? If so you must use this time to get out or plan to get out. If you go to Sheffield Homes in town they have a section there that deals specifically with Domestic Violence, they can rehouse you away from him. Another important factor is do you have children? If you do then they must be you priority, find time to ring social services and tell them what is happening and you are worried about your children and they can work in conjunction with Sheffield Homes to get you rehoused. Do you have any family or friends that live locally, can you ask them to put you up for a while until it is sorted out. But the main thing is to get yourself and any children away from him and out of that situation as soon as you can. Don't waste time on here listening to people like Stegwah who know nothing of your situation and is just being ignorant and rude by hijacking your thread. If you can't stand up to this man and most women are unable to stand up to violent bullies you have to make your move when he isn't there. Please be strong and make that first move to approach someone for help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stressconsul Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 Its his house,so cant kick him out..dont know what was worse the violence which stopped or the mental torture! Mental torture is abuse. Here is a site discussing emotional abuse: http://www.counselingcenter.illinois.edu/?page_id=168 Make a plan and leave. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gazza58 Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 genuinely wasnt a troll. like i said before, has she tried talking to them? why involve others straight away. Easy solution and the problem with today, its always up to someone else to solve your problems etc She is asking for some help,like you were the other day regarding your girlfriends flat being burgled. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stegwah Posted January 24, 2013 Share Posted January 24, 2013 She is asking for some help,like you were the other day regarding your girlfriends flat being burgled. read below my other posts. i have asked lots of questions and asked if she has spoken to him about it. hence, why i wasnt trolling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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