Blondie73 Posted February 19, 2013 Author Share Posted February 19, 2013 Did I mention we are behind on the rent to? I wish all I could do was grieve and grieve some more and not have the added pressure of how do we now pay for everything to?! Apology accepted x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cressida Posted February 19, 2013 Share Posted February 19, 2013 I think its absolutely disgusting that you are having to justify yourself after what you and your family have been through. Ignore these awful people, and good look trying to piece the rest of your life back together. x Seconded:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stranza Posted February 19, 2013 Share Posted February 19, 2013 So sorry for your loss blondie. The system is impossibly hard when you can devote your full attention I can't imagine how hard it would have been for you. Sometimes people forget that life carries on around you, and while you are drowning under the pressure of caring for someone so precious life keeps adding to those pressures. Maybe we should think how we would feel having to explain why i.e. the tv licence is late because our child needed xyz or the rent is late etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Gobby Posted February 19, 2013 Share Posted February 19, 2013 I am quite speechless at your callous remark. The lady has tirelessly cared for her daughter and devoted herself more than any paid carer could that would have cost ten times more than she could claim. It is only people who have never known real financial hardship that can scoff at others who are FORCED to think about money, when that is the last thing they want to be thinking about. Do you get it? Are you one of the Daily Mail readers who believe that all benefits claimants are scroungers? She's that much of a scrounger that she hasn't even been claiming for what she is definitely entitled to. In that sense, she's got a lot in common with the majority of people in this country who actually don't claim what they are entitled to. Not like our bloody MPs, who want us to turn on the poor and label them scroungers! First of all I haven’t scoffed at anyone. Yes you are right there are thousands of people who care for loved one's without claiming or getting the correct benefits. I fall into that category and will continue to-do so. That’s my choice for whatever reasons. This is a forum and when someone starts a thread then they must know they’re inviting opinions from others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
banjodeano Posted February 19, 2013 Share Posted February 19, 2013 BLondie..my heart goes out to you...ignore those horrible horrible horrible people..they should hang their heads in shame...or at least go and crawl back under that shell that they came from..good luck for the future...and walk tall in the knowledge that you did your very best.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cressida Posted February 19, 2013 Share Posted February 19, 2013 It's like kicking someone when they are down - so obviously down too:( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ricgem2002 Posted February 19, 2013 Share Posted February 19, 2013 First of all I haven’t scoffed at anyone. Yes you are right there are thousands of people who care for loved one's without claiming or getting the correct benefits. I fall into that category and will continue to-do so. That’s my choice for whatever reasons. This is a forum and when someone starts a thread then they must know they’re inviting opinions from others. so if you knew that you could claim extra benefits to help you out would you claim them ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blondie73 Posted February 19, 2013 Author Share Posted February 19, 2013 Yes I did start a thread which invites opinions from others. To imply I was only concerned with money after losing her stung a lot and I did have a good cry in bed last night.My fault I guess.I wish I was financially stable so I can grieve in peace,but were not so I carn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ms Macbeth Posted February 19, 2013 Share Posted February 19, 2013 Yes I did start a thread which invites opinions from others. To imply I was only concerned with money after losing her stung a lot and I did have a good cry in bed last night.My fault I guess.I wish I was financially stable so I can grieve in peace,but were not so I carn't. It must be a really difficult time for you, losing a much loved child. Try and ignore the insensitive comments, unfortunately some people are completely incapable of understanding anything they haven't experienced. Hopefully they will never experience what you've gone through. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boothybabe Posted February 19, 2013 Share Posted February 19, 2013 Quite frankly, I'm staggered by the completely insensitive posts on here! Utterly staggered!! Words fail me, and that doesn't often happen! Well said Mr Morris. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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