deirds Posted April 22, 2013 Share Posted April 22, 2013 Either start having a date night with the fella once a week or something, join a club or get a hobby.......if he seriously leaves you every weekend i recommend joining a speed dating club Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cressida Posted April 22, 2013 Share Posted April 22, 2013 You can tell the ones who aren't happily married - they're the ones posting on here after 10pm! What about you Jase, are you happy whether you're single or married? (meant to wish you happy 42nd birthday btw) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyclone Posted April 22, 2013 Share Posted April 22, 2013 Depends on your ages? Either try to talk, or split? Girlyblonde has no hobbies so you suggest breaking up with her partner. ---------- Post added 22-04-2013 at 17:44 ---------- It doesn't sound like the problem is with her partner at all (to me), maybe he works 12 hour shifts as well, maybe more, but at least he doesn't just sit at home all the time staring at the idiot box. Life isn't just what happens to you, it's what you make it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna B Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 Imagine what you would do with yourself if you left him. Now do it anyway. (Tho I don't reccommend afairs) You don't have to ditch the old fella to change your life. Climb out of that rut. It's hard, but no one can do it for you, it's up to you. Life is what you make it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Total Chaos Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 I think that jumping out of a plane is more exciting that meeting a big smelly overgrown child!!, other words a man I don't smell Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electerrific Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 Girlyblonde has no hobbies so you suggest breaking up with her partner. . Either try to talk, or split?.................... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyclone Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 I still don't get it, the OP lacks hobbies, so you think a possible solution, if not to talk, is to break up with her partner. Still loopy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Electerrific Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 I still don't get it Yup........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyclone Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 You're not going to try to explain then? It's a simple question, why are talking or breaking up the only responses to the OP not having any hobbies. How about, "get some hobbies" as a response? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyper Posted August 2, 2013 Share Posted August 2, 2013 well, I went out with the girls and had a fab time,:) however he was in bed when I got in, he never asked how my night had gone,or even if I got in ok ,so maybe that's what all men are like ??? don't take a blind bit of notice ah! the stand off. You want him to tell you how much he missed you and to probe into what you might have got up to... the jealousy game... reassurance for you. He wants you to get into bed and tell him that you feel guilty for having gone out without him and that you wished he had been there. Neither is going to "crack", so resentment builds. Before condemning him, you should have got into bed, snuggled up to him, kissed him goodnight and await his reaction. If he reacts badly, he is guilty. If neither you nor him did anything but allow your minds to spin with negative thoughts, then both parties guilty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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